How old do you have to be to choose who has custody over you?

Answer 1

There is not an age at which a minor is allowed to choose where or with whom they wish to live. A judge may speak with an older teen concerning the issue, but the decision will be based upon the what the judge feels is best suited for the optimate well-being of the child or children involved.

Answer 2

Generally, children do not have a "say" in custody matters, especially young children. A judge may consider the request of an older child, depending on the circumstances, the practice in any particular jurisdiction and the particular judge. Some courts may allow a child's wishes to be considered but the judge is not required to follow them.

Answer 3

Mother has sole custody be default. As for the father, that's up to the individual court.

Answer 4

a child has to be aboutt 15 to 16

Answer 5

Usually you have to be 18.