Your boyfriend doesnt believe that you only love him how can i prove it to him?

Answer 1

If you need to prove to your boyfriend you love him, let him go. He's paranoid. However, if he's just started this, assure him that you love him. Keep doing this. If he just can't understand that you really do love him, he's insecure.

Answer 2

To show a guy you love him look him in the eye until he looks at you, then smile and look away. Walk hand in hand and dont be all over him, unless youre alone. Act like every kiss is your last. Make the first move once in a while but dont be too clingy. Dont talk about marriage but do things that a married couple would do.. Kiss in the rain. Take a walk in the snow. Make dinner for eachother at ones house. Go ice skating. Spend a day at the beach and try to plan enough time so you can watch the sunset. Get mad over stupid things once in a while to give him the feeling that he needs you. Dont go an day without telling him you love him.

Answer 3

that depends.

have you given him reason to distrust your love? (i.e. cheated, talked about ex as if you needed him still, etc). you may want to ask if he has reasoning behind it.

other than that, if you have been the image of faithfulness, i suspect its not just you he distrusts, but women in general. ... wait.. unless im not TALKING to a woman.. ill just go on like i am, and if im wrong, forgive me.

many people have been through many bad expereinces dating, and as such, have a whole buch of fun emotional baggage left over. usually the more you've been hurt, the more you don't want to get hurt again. he probably has some walls up around his heart so that no one can hurt him in this way.

long and the short of it, is that there isn't anything you can do to quick fix this. you have to patiently ride it out. keep in mind most screwed up behavior from any of us is from our sickness, sorrow, lonliness, and pain. people will do the most irrational of things to try to feel better, or avoid more pain. so be compassionate in dealing with him. and DO NOT try to force it out of him. he will tell you if hes good and ready, and if he feels as though you are a soft place to land. be beautiful and inviting. he will want to lower his guard eventually.

or if he doesnt for a good long time, you may want to start reconsidering your relationship. relationship require that you make yourself vulnerable, or they will never grow. if your man is so shut in he is unreachable and invulnerable, he is not handling his heart correctly, much less yours.

hope that helps.

Answer 4

You dont have to prove your love to your boyfd. It is the feeling that one can feel without expressing or doing smthg. it is the language of heart which heart cam feel.

All the best for your love dear :)

Yeah, what they said. You feel the love your bf has for you, you don't know it. Love comes from the soul, knowledge from the head. The love you have for your bf recognizes the love he has for you. It can't be proved, but if you are patient, the love he has for you will see the love you give him.

Very well said :)YOU CANT PROVE IT ..... THEY SHOULD BE ABLE TO TELL BY THE WAY U ACT

Answer 5

Well, first of all, please realize that this is something that a LOT of people say to try to get you to be more intimate and eventually have sex with them. They want you to SHOW or PROVE your love that way, but it is just overt, obvious manipulation.

If you already treat him well, express your love appropriately, and do little things for him, and your boyfriend still doesn't believe that you love him, then why exactly is he your boyfriend? He should believe what you say... and you should be sincere, but if there is no trust in what you say and how you treat him, how will there be trust in further intimacy? Don't fall for the line... turn it back and say that you don't believe him either. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't be pressuring you about something so important.

Answer 6

the only thing you can do here is show it.

stop answering his calls , keep ur phone in flight mode for a few days & pretend to be preoccupied with thoughts on love. wear read clothes & he will get jitters.

Answer 7

This has happened to me this year actually. All you have to do is this:

1.Write him a short letter (Mine was pages long,not a good idea lol.)

- Explain to him what you guys have been through together.

- Explain how you truly feel from inside your heart.

2. Make a list of all the things that are great about this man.

- By putting this all on paper it gives him time to read it himself,when your talking to a guy in person they have the chance to stop listening.. but when their alone with a note no ones there & theres a 97% chance their gonna keep on reading it.

3. Tell him what he does that makes you smile,things that hes done to make you happy.

- He'll realize he does have an impact on you..

4. Let him know what hes taught you..

- Peeople learn from on another & by letting him know that hes given you knowledge in what ever it may be will let him feel good.

& 5. Maybe make a poem to him.. Get a little small gift or something. I've done this before & it has helped.. & BTW! Heads up,I'm close with a few guys that are just friends & they've all told me before if even after all this the guy keeps saying he doesn't believe you.. he DOES believe you its just he WANTS you to give up & he wants you to go away. I was heart broken when hearing that but its definitely true. So if he still doesn't after this please move on cause hes just a jerk then.

Answer 8

You can't 'prove' love, you can only demonstrate it with your behavior. That doesn't include suborning your own self esteem; it means showing respect and expecting respect; showing kindness, reliability, respect for his family and friends, and avoiding negative behavior and manipulation.

Answer 9

stop worryin and juss listin to that