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Can a person who has been verbally abusive in a relationship ever change in that same relationship and can the person that they have abused ever really forgive them?
Change in abusers is VERY VERY VERY rare, if ever. Forgiveness is a process. The abused must forgive THEMSELVES first & foremost. It's impossible to forgive someone who doesn't own, apologize and change permanently.
Is it normal to forgive an abusive parent when they are diagnosed with a terminal disease?
It is a strong person who can recognize a terminally ill parent who has been abusive to them and yes, it is possible and mature to see the abusive treatment as part of that terminally ill disease.
Can you write down your husband has been abusive to you on the divorce forms or do you have to write the corespondent has been abusive to you?
It does not matter. They are the same thing.
Did I pushed my husband to cheat twice because I am an abusive wife?
Probably, if he's not happy at home he'll go somewhere else and who would be happy with an abusive wife??ANSWERNo regardless of the dynamics of the relationship you have with your husband - he is responsible for his own behavior. If you are abusive and you want to stay with him, get help. If you are not abusive you need to decide if you want to be with this person who would not only cheat but blame you for his own bad behavior. It's a lot to think about.
Your ex boyfriend was abusive yet you miss him and still love him?
sure, ur ex wasnt the nicest person at the bar, but it cud of been his looks or personality that truly won u over! you're willing to forget the "abusive" past and move on.
Is it normal for someone who has been abused to be obsessively reading books on abusive men or looking at abuse websites trying to find that one thing that will put the abuser in his place?
It might be necessary to get the person in for therapy. If nothing else, the therapist might be able to get the abused person to leave the abusive relationship and be a little less obsessive.
Does a person really change after getting out of the National Guard?
Yes, because they have been conditioned to act a certain way and will continue to act that way until they realize that it isn't really accepted outside the boot camp, but they will adjust.
If someone is always reading books on Abuse and has approx 30 articles on Abuse Are they somewhat fanatical about Abuses This person labels any disagreement where raising a voice as Abusive?
I think anyone who reads that much about it is a or has been a victim of abuse and is very sensitive to loud voices. While I don't necessarily consider yelling or raising your voice abusive,the choice of words may be to that person. Ask your friend what he/she has been through and try to just be a friend. This sounds like a person who has been abused. Just try to be an understanding friend.
What does reformation mean?
Change
Do controlling and verbally abusive men change?
I'm sorry dear, but my answer to that question is a big NO, trust me I have experience in this department. A little embarrased to say but have been trhough it a few times. You are the one that may need the help and get away from somebody that is doing this to you. It has nothing to do with you and don't let him let you think that. It's all about him. Move on honey. You deserve better
What can you tell your uncle he has been abusive to you as his niece and his wife and children?
That he should leave them alone or the police should get involved. If your witnessing abuse seriously report it. A friend that I know had an abusive dad and he told the police one day and his dad came out of prison a whole diffrent person. Dont just do it for your family but for him.
Could your boyfriend be insecure if he is always thinking you are unfaithful or is he really just cheating?
Red Flag to being in an abusive relationship. Especially if you have been faithful and you are constantly trying to prove it to your boyfriend while he is accusatory. Is he really cheating...you would have to do the detective work to find that out.
