The administror's wife has not authority to do anything with the estate. If they do, they can be held accountable for theft or misappropriation.
The estate has the responsibility to settle all debts, including medical bills. The estate can demand the money back from the husband. Once that is done, then remainder can be distributed to the beneficiaries.
The back child support is still a debt. The estate should make a claim against the father. The money is still owed to the mother. Whether your wife receives any of it will depend on the estate and what bills are owed.
It would be safe to assume that the wife is entitled to the entire estate. As long as she is not shorting debtors, she can spend some of the estate's money, as long as she is keeping good records.
In most cases it will default to the estate.
Yes, if the money was to be given to take care of the children and it was never paid, it is still owed to the estate of the deceased.
it would fall back to his estate. as long as the wife inherits the estate she will get it, but the amount will then be taxable. if she was the beneficiary of the policy or if the trust was still solvent the money would be tax free.
There has been no valid proof of money being stolen from the Estate. The bulk of it was left to his daughter, and many reports claim that his former wife Courtney Love made up the story to get herself some publicity.
Insurance money is a contract and is normally outside the estate. The adult children would have no rights to it.
His estate will be responsible. Indirectly, the wife will either have to pay it or get a smaller inheritance.
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It will go to the alternate beneficiary, if one is listed if not it will be paid to the estate to be distributed in the same way as any other money in the estate.
Did the mother have a will? Or did she die intestate (without a will)? And did the mother die before or after your wife? It could make a difference in some places. If your mother-in-law died before your wife, and her will left it all to your wife, the money will go into your wife's estate. If the mother-in-law's estate had already been settled, it will already be in your wife's estate. The will should dispose of wife's property, including inheritance, if any. Without a will, state laws of intestacy will determine what, if anything, a surviving sibling gets beyond what surviving spouse (and any children) get. See a probate attorney immediately for details on your case.