Only if you know people by this name or don't know their relationhip [ father-daughter, uncle niece, brother- sister ] .
For the 50th Wedding Anniversary invitation the man's name comes first: Mr. John Doe and Mrs. Jane Doe or if it is not that formal it could be 'John and Jane Doe.'
The parents name on a wedding invitation would read: Mr. & Mrs. John Doe are happy to announce the wedding of their daughter Jane Alice Doe to Mr. & Mrs. Jack Smith's son Jack Smith, Jr. Also it can be written: Mr. John and Jane Doe.
* In business the employees name goes first and then their mate. Example: John & Jane Doe (If John Doe works for the company) and Jane & John Doe (if Jane works this particular company.)
The address should read (an example): Dr. John Doe and Mayor Jane Doe.
Etiquette (and yes, it's still used) is the man's name goes first. Examples: * Mr. & Mrs. John Doe * Mr. John Doe & Jane Doe, M.D. * Mr. John Doe and Dr. Jane Doe * Dr. John Doe and Mrs. Jane Doe * Drs. John and Jane Doe * Dr. John Doe & Dr. Jane Doe * Mr. & Mrs. J. Doe * Honorable John Doe and Mrs. Jane Doe (only used for invitations to the couple.)
The correct way to address the envelope is: Mr. John Doe & Dr. Jane Doe.
It should be addressed as Rev and Mrs John Doe.
* I assume the married couple are redoing their vows because they may have had been married at the courthouse or, they were married in another country. It would be: Mr. & Mrs. John Doe on the wedding invitation. Or if you want an more informal Wedding Invitation you could put: Celebrating the marriage of John and Jane Doe.
* It depends on the individual. Some widows prefer to keep their husband's Christian name such as 'John.' Either way is correct ... John or Jane. * The usual practice is "Mrs. Jane Doe"; but always defer to the woman's preference. Note: If a married woman's husband is alive, then the form "Mrs. John Doe" is commonly used, but in social contexts only: in a business letter she should not be addressed that way. * In traditional, published etiquette, specifically referenced in Miss Manners Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior (2005)and Crane's Blue Book of Social Stationery (2002), a widow is only correctly addressed formally as "Mrs. John Doe". Informally, she would be "Jane Doe". Using "Mrs. Jane Doe" implies that she is a divorcee.
John Doe & Jane Doe
When you are addressing a letter to married doctors it would be: Drs. John and Jane Doe.
The address should read: Drs. John and Jane Doe or, Dr. John Doe and Dr. Jane Doe.