What age does a widow have to be to collect deceased husbands ss
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No, an ex-spouse can't collect a deceased husbands insurance if the first wife is listed as beneficiary even if the fist wife is now deceased. The money will go to the beneficiary's heirs.
It depends on how long he was married to his first wife. If he was married to his first wife for 10 years or more, the second wife would have to share it with the first wife, unless the divorce decree states something different.
the wife was mournful at her husbands death
No, you are no longer related. (Unless there is some special contract entered into by all three...the decedent, the ex-wife and the employer. This would be very unlikely though.)
Yes, by that time you are already his wife and you are legally allowed to collect it. As long as you can show proof that you are the wife, there wouldn't be any problem.
You can use their income to get more ss if you have been married to them for at least 10 years.
No, not unless it can be proven that the wife was an accomplice or complicit in the crime. HOWEVER: depending on the state, the innocent wife may have to deal with efforts to collect damages by the husbands victim(s) if they can get court orders placing liens on the husbands assets.
Romeo's banishment.
That depends on whether he was the only name on the deed. If it was, the wife will inherit.
No. To do so would be a crime.
Yes, certainly it is acceptable. As a wife you can choose your husbands clothes for him.