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Can you get someone to love?

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14y ago
Updated: 8/20/2019

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No, I believe it's basically impossible. You should just stop trying and they might love you if it was actually possible. We can't we force people to fall in love with us; but now that I think about it, most people fall in love with other people when they have a void inside. They need something to make them feel secure about themselves and that's when that special someone comes in and makes them feel secure about themselves. I think its all about security.

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You can't make another person feel something that's not there. Love takes time to grow; when you like someone, that's not love, it's like; when you desire someone, that's not love, it's desire; filling a need for something that seems to be missing is not love, it's neediness. None of these emotions add up to love. Accepting them as love is a mistake that you will discover before too long.

With that said, I think what you really mean is 'get someone to like you, to want you'. Yes, that is possible. If you're the right person to fulfill those desires of the other person. You start by talking to the person; if that works, you may be able to ask more of the relationship by inviting the person to a next step. Simple steps like, would you like to call me sometime, would you like to go to... sometime, etc. If you are turned down, then you don't get your hopes too high. These simple things will result in a relationship or they won't. You won't know if you don't try.

If you are already in a relationship, love will either develop and grow or it won't. Most relationships you will find, will be over before it ever gets that far. That's a good thing because there is no unhappiness like feeling love for someone who isn't appropriate or doesn't reciprocate those feelings. Dating and relationships are a trial and error process and you should never take it personally when it doesn't work. Easier said than done, I know, but where would we get all our songs if it were not.

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