Can you refuse to get a restraining order against a boyfriend because of cps?

Answer 1

Your question isn't incredibly clear, however, if you are advising that CPS has told you to get a restraining order against your boyfriend and you want to refuse to do so then the following scenario may play out. (Please keep in mind, I have no details of your situation and this is entirely speculative. Seeking advice from a family law lawyer that has experience with CPS is strongly recommended). CPS likely has developed the opinion that your boyfriend is an unreasonable danger for the children in your care. They have asked/demanded that you get an order restraining your boyfriend from being around so they can be assured that this danger is not longer present. In the event you were to refuse that request they may decide to take civil action to enforce a legal order that prevents him from being around your children, or in the event they didn't feel that was providing the children a safe environment they may instead opt to remove the children from your care. I am not familiar with the procedures they must go through to get all of that done, nor the time frames. In the event you are a victim of assault with your boyfriend being the suspect, you likely could get a protection order and cooperate with the investigation to secure a conviction against him for the assault. Check with the family protection team/violence team at the agency where your assault was reported.

Answer 2

Ultimately, the decision to obtain a restraining order lies with the individual who is seeking it. However, it is important to prioritize the safety and well-being of both yourself and any children involved. If Child Protective Services (CPS) is involved and has concerns regarding the relationship, it may be advisable to follow their recommendations or seek guidance from a legal professional.