They'll serve you in jail
You can serve a spouse with separation papers which they have no recourse not to accept. You can also serve them with divorce papers. They can refuse to sign, but eventually a judge may grant the divorce anyway.
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This state has regulations concerning how papers must be served on someone. If your boyfriend meets those requirements, he can serve those papers. Since you should have a lawyer if you are going to get a divorce, why don't you ask your lawyer so you will follow the law in your location.
Serve him with divorce papers and let him anwer in court.
After you have done every possible effort to try to summon your spouse with the divorce papers and after this person have receive the papers on his hands and you have a receipt that proves that he was serve on jail or prison, he or she has 21 days to respond to your divorce petition. After this time has passes then you can request a court day on which you can ask the judge to please give you a divorce by default. But remember you have to make sure he was serve.
after both of the people sign the papers you MUST take it to the courts and get them official
In many states, the local police department can serve your spouse with divorce papers. They will charge a less expensive fee than a process server, but will only make a certain number of attempts. If the police are unable to serve your spouse, you will need to hire a process server. You need not always serve papers face to face, consider these resources if you want another option. http://www.womansdivorce.com/how-to-serve-divorce-papers.html
You can instruct a lawyer through an affidavit and email in that country to serve papers on your behalf You can instruct a lawyer through an affidavit and email in that country to serve papers on your behalf
As long is the service is proper, the spouse can serve their husband or wife. You will also want to get proof of service as well but if this is an amicable divorce then this should not be a problem.