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Well often after your man has cheated, you think it might be your fault, you might have caused it, will he do it again? How can I ever forgive him and trust him. Will I have doubts and anxiety everytime he leaves the house? Will I be able to let it go? If I trust him again will he take advantage of my trust again and deceive me AGAIN?
I think every relationship is different, to trust him, you have to know him, but sometime to trust again is the hardest thing to do it feels like a grudge that cant be erased, I think the answer is deep inside your relationship and if you see he's repent, that he's making effort, I think he might deserve a little chance, but if he shows no remorse i dont see why he would deserve your love after soiling it.
If you do decide to forgive him, and to try to trust him again, you have to take your time, and you can even tell him that for that trust to come back it will take time. He has to proove himself more than he did when you first started dating. Trust is a lot of work. that's why it's so precious.
Sue H.
The secret of recovering from an affair is to understand why your partner cheated. The hard part is that most people who have been unfaithful find it hard to explain. This is partly because they fear upsetting their partner even more and partly because a lot of the drivers are unconscious. So think about what was happening in his life at the time? What problems did he have? What was happening in your life too? Next look at communication between the two of you, if your partner was feeling so unhappy or felt that your love was stale, why did he feel that he couldn't talk this over with you? Once you've began to understand what went wrong, you have a good idea if the relationship can be fixed or not and how to go about starting the journey back to trust.
Good Luck.
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∙ 14y ago
It ultimately depends on the individual and the circumstances surrounding the cheating. Trust can be rebuilt over time with open communication, transparency, and a genuine effort to address the root issues that led to the cheating. It's important to consider whether the person has shown genuine remorse and taken steps to make amends.
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∙ 10y agoFool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
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Should you continue to be with someone who has cheated?
Sure if that's the best you can do! Do cheater's not need love too. Do you need love? or just someone, anyone to be with? no forget her/him that person is worthless don't ever get back together with that person trust me i made this mistake twice
Can you trust a girl who has cheated on you?
Unfourtunately no. if she has cheated on you it clearly means she would rather date someone else. But theres plenty of girls out there so just move on mate
How do you prove you can be trusted again when you cheated on that person twice?
"just keep on saying your sorry and promise you'll nevber do it again" -previous answer ahahaha no. I'm guessing if you cheated on that person TWICE, and you want to date that person AGAIN, there's a reason why you cheated in the first place. If you cheated because it was too boring, then there's one reason (for example). If you just want that person to trust you again, then just don't share secrets. Make sure that if you guys hang out, you are there ON TIME, not LATE, or else that person will never trust you again.
Who cheated death twice in the Odysseus?
Sisyphus
Your wife cheated with three people?
* If your wife has cheated with three different people or even had a four-way then you both need to sit down and communicate and decide if 'you' want to stay with her. Once someone has cheated they have crossed the ultimate line of trust and it's difficult to earn that trust back. Only you can make the decision of whether you stay or leave.
How do you date a guy who has been cheated on?
get him to trust you :)
Should i trust a friend who cheated on her husband?
i have been in many situations like that and i find it hard to trust a person who has cheated. but it all depends on the situation
What if your new bf is someone you cheated on your ex with and how can you trust your new bf since your relationship started off in a dishonest wayWhats to say he wont cheat on you with someone else?
he prob will
What if your girlfriend cheated on you twice but she said she was high and he took advantage but you love her and she says that your the best thing that happened to her what do you do?
What you do is you say sorry I can't trust you!and you will get over it what do you think she told the other guys?
How can i tell if my boyfriend has cheated?
You can't tell 100% sure. Talk to him about it, but you have to have enough trust in him to believe what he says. If you don't have that much trust in him, then you may want to reconsider being with him. It's a hard thing to have a relationship with someone you don't have full trust in.
What do you do when you cheated on your boyfriend with an ex and wont give you any trust back?
you will have to move on and live with the consequences of cheating,, however, maybe the trust will return if you are patient, but probably not, it is devastating when someone you are supposed to be in love with cheats.
What if u find out the reason the guy u like hasn't asked u out is because hes worried u are going to cheat on him even though he knows ur not that kind of person. -hes been cheated on twice recently?
He's been cheated on twice? Doesnt that give you a clue? Think about it, if you dated three guys. One of them cheats on you with your BEST friend, the second one cheats on you with someone else, and the third one breaks up with you (he may not have had three but it helps with the explanation). Right now in time, you are feeling betrayed. You trusted three people and two of them let you down. They CHEATED on you. When someone cheats, you feel betrayed, you feel like you just arent good enough. Would you trust another person again? No, you are worried that they might cheat on you. ITs all an issue of trust.
