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Could an ex partner who is a narcissist just be after money with his new girlfriend?
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∙ 11y ago
Of course. He is obviously after something since a narcissist is only interested in how they can enrich themselves at the expense of others. They choose "partners" who can supply something: adoration, a place to live for a while, money, sex, vicarious prestige, an introduction to a new social group, etc.
Of course. He is obviously after something since a narcissist is only interested in how they can enrich themselves at the expense of others. They choose "partners" who can supply something: adoration, a place to live for a while, money, sex, vicarious prestige, an introduction to a new social group, etc.
Of course. He is obviously after something since a narcissist is only interested in how they can enrich themselves at the expense of others. They choose "partners" who can supply something: adoration, a place to live for a while, money, sex, vicarious prestige, an introduction to a new social group, etc.
Of course. He is obviously after something since a narcissist is only interested in how they can enrich themselves at the expense of others. They choose "partners" who can supply something: adoration, a place to live for a while, money, sex, vicarious prestige, an introduction to a new social group, etc.
Wiki User
∙ 11y ago
Wiki User
∙ 11y agoOf course. He is obviously after something since a narcissist is only interested in how they can enrich themselves at the expense of others. They choose "partners" who can supply something: adoration, a place to live for a while, money, sex, vicarious prestige, an introduction to a new social group, etc.
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Your partner is a narcissist you want him to leave your home but he has nowhere to live and no money what should you do?
That is not your problem.Narcissists usually land on their feet. Boot him out and stop allowing him to manipulate you by making you feel sorry for him.
How does narcissist pick a mate?
He/she picks a partner based on how much narcissist supply that person has to give. It may come in the form of sex, the attention of being with an attractive person (if you're hot), or using that person for something they have like a beach house and the narcissist will be able to go there for free with the mate. A narcissist might choose a mate that is known in the community as successful. Being associated with someone even slightly famous is narcissist supply for them. So if you've got something to give and the narcissist knows it--be it money, sex, adulation, good looks, a beach house, a Paris apartment, celebrity--they'll be all over you.
How can you tell if your boyfriend or girlfriend would be a good marriage partner?
One way to tell whether or not your boyfriend or girlfriend would be a good marriage partner would be to judge how well you two get along and how often you agree on important subjects like how to spend money or whether you'd like to one day have kids. If you find that you and your partner do not easily reach decisions, you may need to find a better marriage candidate.
Can narcissist punish you by not sending you money after he abandons you?
Probably, they do. They dont care about anyone
Why people are attracted to a person with narcissism?
Because you believe the best in people and take them at face value. You believe in giving praise and encouragement instead of criticism. I have been married to a narcissist. It was my second marriage and lasted 9 years and he has just cheated on me and lied to me in ways I find unbelievable. he is now busy in his new fantasy land relationship, denigrating me. Fortunately I have lots of friends who have realised what he was like and are keeping me sane. He has been through strings of relationships. I know I am fortunate I can walk away but he filled my life.On the face of it, there is no (emotional) partner or mate, who typically "binds" with a narcissist. They come in all shapes and sizes. The initial phases of attraction, infatuation and falling in love are pretty normal. The narcissist puts on his best face ? the other party is blinded by budding love. A natural selection process occurs only much later, as the relationship develops and is put to the test.Living with a narcissist can be exhilarating, is always onerous, often harrowing. Surviving a relationship with a narcissist indicates, therefore, the parameters of the personality of the survivor. She (or, more rarely, he) is moulded by the relationship into The Typical Narcissistic Mate/Partner/Spouse.First and foremost, the narcissist's partner must have a deficient or a distorted grasp of her self and of reality. Otherwise, she (or he) is bound to abandon the narcissist's ship early on. The cognitive distortion is likely to consist of belittling and demeaning herself ? while aggrandising and adoring the narcissist. The partner is, thus, placing himself in the position of the eternal victim: undeserving, punishable, a scapegoat. Sometimes, it is very important to the partner to appear moral, sacrificial and victimised. At other times, she is not even aware of this predicament. The narcissist is perceived by the partner to be a person in the position to demand these sacrifices from her partner, being superior in many ways (intellectually, emotionally, morally, financially).The status of professional victim sits well with the partner's tendency to punish herself, namely: with her masochistic streak. The tormented life with the narcissist is, as far as the partner is aware, a just punitive measure.In this respect, the partner is the mirror image of the narcissist. By maintaining a symbiotic relationship with him, by being totally dependent upon the source of masochistic supply (which the narcissist most reliably constitutes and most amply provides) ? the partner enhances certain traits and encourages certain behaviours, which are at the very core of narcissism.The narcissist is never whole without an adoring, submissive, available, self-denigrating partner. His very sense of superiority, indeed his False Self, depends on it. His sadistic Superego switches its attentions from the narcissist (in whom it often provokes suicidal ideation) to the partner, thus finally obtaining an alternative source of sadistic satisfaction.It is through self-denial that the partner survives. She denies her wishes, hopes, dreams, aspirations, sexual, psychological and material needs, and much else besides. She perceives her needs as threatening because they might engender the wrath of the narcissist's God-like supreme figure. The narcissist is rendered in her eyes even more superior through and because of this self-denial. Self-denial undertaken to facilitate and ease the life of a "great man" is more palatable. The "greater" the man (=the narcissist), the easier it is for the partner to ignore her own self, to dwindle, to degenerate, to turn into an appendix of the narcissist and, finally, to become nothing but an extension, to merge with the narcissist to the point of oblivion and of dim memories of one's self.The two collaborate in this macabre dance. The narcissist is formed by his partner inasmuch as he forms her. Submission breeds superiority and masochism breeds sadism. The relationships are characterised by rampant emergentism: roles are allocated almost from the start and any deviation meets with an aggressive, even violent reaction.The predominant state of the partner's mind is utter confusion. Even the most basic relationships ? with husband, children, or parents ? remain bafflingly obscured by the giant shadow cast by the intensive interaction with the narcissist. A suspension of judgment is part and parcel of a suspension of individuality, which is both a prerequisite to and the result of living with a narcissist. The partner no longer knows what is true and right and what is wrong and forbidden.The narcissist recreates for the partner the sort of emotional ambience that led to his own formation in the first place: capriciousness, fickleness, arbitrariness, emotional (and physical or sexual) abandonment. The world becomes uncertain and frightening and the partner has only one thing to cling to: the narcissist.And cling she does. If there is anything which can safely be said about those who emotionally team up with narcissists, it is that they are overtly and overly dependent.The partner doesn't know what to do ? and this is only too natural in the mayhem that is the relationship with the narcissist. But the typical partner also does not know what she wants and, to a large extent, who she is and what she wants to become.These unanswered questions hamper the partner's ability to gauge reality, evaluate and appraise it for what it is. Her primordial sin is that she fell in love with an image, not with a real person. It is the voiding of the image that is mourned when the relationship ends.ANSWERYou may have been raised by a narcissistic parent which makes you a magnet for them.Ive been raised by a narsistic father and mother and brother and sister!And i always seem to attract men into my life that are narcisists, and i don't get itWhy do you think if you have been raised my a narcissistic parent you become a magnet for them?? pls explaine, Ta :)
How does a narcissist behave in court when they owe you money?
If the narcissist regards you as a potential future source of narcissistic supply, he will seek to compromise. If he has given up on you as a source of supply - he will fight you tooth and nail.
Could you be Jadens girlfriend?
jaden I was asking if I could be your girlfriend I really want to meet u but my mom don't have enought money just like on k-kid every time they was kicking u on your leg I was crying and your sexy to.
What to do when you got hurt from your girlfriend and after that you said to her that you spent a lot of money on her and she got mad?
Love can be blind and when two people are in love they want to make the other person happy so one or both of the couples may spend a lot of money on their partner. You made the decision to spend a lot of money on your girlfriend and there should be no strings attached if she did not ask you to buy her things. Therefore, if she didn't ask for things and you made this comment you need to apologize to her. You are in control regarding what money you spend not only on yourself but what money you spend on your girlfriend. You made this comment out of anger so apologize to her and if you really do feel she is using you for your money then you have the power to walk away from her.
I a video a man and his girlfriend were in a hotel with their stolen money The man revealed he was with the police then had his girlfriend beat him up so she could get away What video and what band?
The name of the group is safetysuit and the song is stay
What is Matty B raps like more a girlfriend or money?
Girlfriend
When a boyfriend gives money to girlfriend what is it called?
When a boyfriend gives money to a girlfriend it is called a gift. If he wants the money returned it is a loan.
Does an Indian guy support theri girlfriend when it comes to money?
It depends on the Indian guy as to whether or not he will support his girlfriend when it comes to money. Typically, men do not support their girlfriends (with money) until the girlfriend becomes their wife.
