Possibly yes possibly no. You could confront him and trust him to stop, or you can confront the other woman, who may or may not know he is married. If she knows it is most likely you will just have to trust your husband he'll stop or separate. If she does not it is likely she will break it off, in which you might as well do.
Stop lying to him.
All you have to do is stop, you don't need any help from no one. But if you are asking ways to stop your affair, it will shows that your not really ready to stop your affair. If you are the wife and your wondering how you can tell your husband to stop his affair, all you have to do is talk to him, give him choices what he will face if he don't. But if he tells you that he can't or wont it means that your husband needs to decide if he want to stay married with you or divorce you. It's that simple
No.
divorce
It was an affair,your in denial,get real,take responsibility for your actions!!
stop being sexist
There have been all sorts of unplanned consequences resulting from an affair, besides STIs and pregnancies. In some affairs, the other person becomes a stalker or blackmails the cheating spouse; the affair partner (other woman/other man) harasses and threatens the betrayed spouse, the betrayed spouse harasses the affair partner. Even worse, there have been murders and suicides as a result of an affair. There's no way to predict what person will be set off by the results of an affair. ANSWER: AS far as I know yes there are some mistress that do no stop harassing the wife. I'm not sure how dangerous a mistress are, but I will use my past experience. When I discovered my husbands love affair, it automatically changed their life together. She said I ruined her life with my husband, and some other stuff. To me it's my husbands fault why she become this way, even they met on a dating site, it was him who pursue her even if she was still married. And because he fell in love with her but unfortunately I discovered their affair, he stop seeing her. That woman still part of my life even I don't have a life with the man that I married. But this is what the mistress is been doing, to make my life with my children miserable.
Any affair can be stop if you don't want it to linger. But if you think your affair can be stop through kissing, I think you need to focus on if you want to end your affair. Married man will not permit just kissing and then left him in a cold spot. Either you tell him that you can't continue the affair or be the one that will destroy his wife. It's that simple... ADDITION: If you think kissing will not affect you or this married man, think again. My ex told me that they only made out everytime he saw this married woman, and guest what it made him more wanting her...
Many reasons - maybe she doesn't know. Really, the internet and mobile phones make cheating a lot easier. Or maybe she doesn't realize he's a serial cheater and thinks it was a one off affair. There is the idea that the couple can "get past" an affair [singular], which might be true, just not with a serial cheater. This type of spouse has deeper issues and will never ever stop cheating. Ever.
No you weaboo. Stop watching bad anime
ANSWER:Good question; but it will be a bit tricky. I never met married people who had an affair, stop the affair and go back to that person for another affair. The only married man or woman that go back to the first affair he or she had are the one that fell in love to that person. And I think that is the reality that most cheater face.
most likely his wife found out and he wants to save his marriage and family instead of ruining his life ANSWER: A few reason he might have that if he didn't break up with you, things will not be pleasant for him. It could be that he realize the mistakes he done to his wife will be horrible. Or he rather stop his affair with you before the wife discovered it. But the worst scenario is maybe he already gotten what he wanted from you, so he needs to stop and move on. Either way, you need to stop wondering about your married lover. He have a wife.