You will thank me later. Cheers
I would do some snooping around. The worst that you can find out is that he is and if he is I'd just dump him right there.
she helped by telling her husband what is right for women
The question is do you really want to know the intimate details of the afair? If you are suspecting your husband is having an affair there are obviously problems in your marriage. Where do you go from here? Depending on what state you live in, proof of an affair may not do anything, but drive you crazy. I am going through a divorce right now and the hardest part is watching him parade his girlfriend around. I never had him investigated, instead I spent the money on a good divorce attorney. You need to decide for yourself if your marriage is over and if it is, where do you go from here. Personally, I do not see the need to injure yourself and your self esteem anymore, but having proof of the affair.
You have this situation a little backward. First off your husband should not be having an affair and you should demand he break it off entirely or you are heading for divorce court. There is no need to have anything to do with his mistress and why should you care if she apologizes or not. It's time you sat up and started to fly right and ask your husband if he even wants to save the marriage and forget the mistresses part in this.
Nope it is not, it doesn't matter what she is, or her husband must not care about it, it's still wrong specially in the eyes of God
yes.two wrongs do not make a right. Thou shalt not covert thou neighbors wife /husband. I would say that the marriage is clearly over is its clear the wife is only home to save money and is leaving. Discuss it and end it. If you like another person, be honest and let them know what is going on. If they want to continue seeing you then I dont see it as a problem unless the affair is going to complicate the divorce.
If Iago had told Othello right out that they were having an affair, Othello might consider that he had a motive for saying so. It would become an issue of "Who is lying? Iago or Desdemona?" and Othello would probably believe Desdemona. But by planting the seed of suspicion and then feeding it by downplaying it, Iago makes sure that Othello is not even aware that it is Iago that is telling him about the supposed affair. He thinks he's finding it out for himself. This way it does not become a credibility issue between Desdemona and Iago.
You already know two wrongs don't make a right so the best thing to do is let your husband know about his affair and that his friend told you and is now interested in you. Be careful of gossip! Communication is the best skill anyone can have so sit down and calmly discuss this with your husband. It is also up to you to make it plain to your husband's so-called friend that you are not interested in him and stay clear of him. This is no friend of your husbands because he is hoping to have an affair with you behind your husband's back.
There is no need to sue your spouse, but you do have the right to file for divorce and in some states half of what he owns will go to you if you have the right lawyer. The person your spouse is having the affair with can be named as to the reason you are applying for a divorce. It would be wise of you to seek legal counsel to see what your options are.
I think that is the right move, but my question is, did you caught his affair or he came forward and tell you about it. Now the limbo will start, all the question will come out from you. You will have this betrayal and trust issue with your husband. One thing though, do not let your husband tell you " it just happen" or I'm sorry I didn't mean to do it." This are what most married men will say when they get caught. If you think about it, he is not a tiny sorry for having an affair nor it just happen, because he did planned what he did.This will be up to you, either you want to forgive him and he might do it again, or move on without him in your life. It's not hard being a divorce, I did it because the man I married had affair to...
Common-law marriage is much the same as a marriage so you should see a lawyer and if you feel you have had enough of your mate having an affair file with the lawyer to have her removed from the residence.
i think for a woman who devoted almost her whole being & loyalty for the same man, and yet she's still being cheated by her husband, she has the right to do the same thing to her husband. even if it sounds unfair to some men, but that's the best way for men to learn their lesson.