Your fish could have something called "ick". It is a disease and can be easily treated with over the counter medications. This only from what you are describing; ick forms on the fins as a milky white ribbon, so to say. It could just be the fish's natural color, but I haven't ever really seen white on betta fish. If it is ick and you do not treat it, your fish will could die.
I believe you mean Betta fish. No, it should be fine. You can treat you Betta fish by giving them bloodworms!
There is no such thing as an "Ocean Betta".
No, once per day is fine for Betta's.
The Betta fish want to kill eachother. That's what all Betta fish want to do, that's a natural thing.
Yes they would be fine (if they are plants that are ment to live underwater) for the betta splenden aka Siamese fighter fish (assuming that is the betta you are refering to) as it is a tropical fish
Yes.
yes of course! my betta is in a 2.5g and is perfectly fine
Some betta kits come with bamboo; it's completely fine
It should be fine.
Female Betta fish can be fairly good community style fish and should be fine. Male Bettas would massacre the community.
Yes because they are a living thing.
it depends some fish can be less aggressive than others i had a male Betta that lived fine for years with gold fish