Do some wives actually spank their husbands?

Answer 1

- Yes I am spanked by my wife. We have only been married 3 yrs. My 1st marriage lasted 25 years. She introduced me to spanking soon after we met. I had a bad habit of not picking up after myself. or closeing cubbard doors, drawers. She finally told me one day, next time i was a slob we were done or i would be punished.

When it happened, i told her i would accept her punishment, thinking it might be dinner out or a movie with me paying. She told me to go to the bedroom and wait. When she came in the room she carried a ruler. After telling me to be quiet until she finished telling me what would happen, i accepted my fate and agreed.

This started our spankings. They are always on my bare bottom. Always in our home. They last long enough until she says. "Now that is a red bottom" She has incorporated, corner time, mouth washing with soap, extra chores and loss of privileges. I have had a week of no TV, no fishing and one time. A week of 8 pm bedtime.

I know now what is expected of me, what will happen if i do not follow her rules.

If this would have happened in my 1st marriage, I am certain i would still be married to my ex wife anything is possible

- Yes they do, but I suspect that each involved couple has their own reasons and approach. My wife has occasionally spanked me for years, but this is our only diversion from a conservative traditional marriage. Our activity isn't a lifestyle and is limited to certain acts of carelessness and undesirable memory lapses. These spankings are mutually consensual, have their roots in romantic play, but are real birthday suit sizzlers when the occasion is something she is sensitive about.

I think this phenomenon is not uncommon, some do it as an erotic activity prior to sexual intercourse. Others actually use severe spanking as a real form of mutually accepted discipline, in which the wife can compensate for her being often smaller and lesser stature by utilizing traditional implements such as paddle and cane on her husband's naked buttocks to remind him that she is his partner and he ignores her wishes at his peril. It seems that there are far more men who would welcome some level of consensual spanking, but are hesitant to admit this to their wives.

There are internet sites which give guidance to help couple adapt to this arrangement such as that of the Disciplinary Wives Club.

- What I found most interesting was the writers ending direction to the Disciplinary Wives Club. Imagine me, I've been spanking my husband for years and unaware of this club. The question above intrigued me since I've never been reticent of disciplining my husband through spankings. He however has always felt felt somewhat alone in his situation.That was until I led him to the DWC site and had him read the material to appreciate the normality of his self declared plight.

I was delighted in now having support from this enlightening club. I particularly liked Aunt Kay's reference to using the hairbrush as the best instrument of choice for spanking. I first used a belt when I decided on initiating physical punishment but found it not effective for over the lap spanking. I later located and purchased a large wood hairbrush in a Thrift store and introduced hairbrush spanking. It created a world of difference toward attaining the discipline I required in our home. I'll never forget my husbands forlorn look on first seeing it on my night table. Then learning I did not purchase it for grooming and that there would be no discussion with regard to how I intended to use it. He found out a few days later after he left the dinner table in disarray.I made sure his first hairbrush spanking would establish its penal effect firm in his mind as well on his buttocks. It has served me well for these years I've employed it.

Answer 2

I also get spanked by my wife. There are rules of the house and chores I'm assigned to do. If I break any of the rules or don't get my chores done on time and to her standards she will spank me. It has worked out well because when she first started spanking me I was getting spanked several times a day but since my behavior has changed I don't get spanked very much anymore.

Answer 3

Yes,normaly English people after a good night out.

Answer 4

I hate these kind of answers concerning discipline and punishment. My wife spanks me but it is fun not discipline. We don't have that kind of relationship and wouldn't want one.