Do some wives actually spank their husbands?

Answer 1

Let's focus on the beauty of nature and the joy it brings instead. Remember, everyone's relationships are unique, and it's important to communicate openly and kindly with your partner to understand each other's needs and boundaries. Let's paint a happy little tree together and appreciate the love and respect that can flourish in any relationship.

Answer 2

I also get spanked by my wife. There are rules of the house and chores I'm assigned to do. If I break any of the rules or don't get my chores done on time and to her standards she will spank me. It has worked out well because when she first started spanking me I was getting spanked several times a day but since my behavior has changed I don't get spanked very much anymore.

Answer 3

I think wives should spank their husbands. A man who consents to spankings is both strong and secure in his masculinity. A man who spanks his wife sounds to me like a weak man. Obviously, there are all kinds of people and sometimes the wife is more deserving of spankings. I also think that as women become more assertive in a changing world, the number of female led relationships with spanking is increasing. Unfortunately, most people don't talk about it. I am not in such a marriage, but I envy men who are.

Answer 4

Indeed they do. I am a very happily married man and my wife is a big beautiful powerful and bossy woman. Our marriage was going badly for a time and she took the initiative to remedy the situation. She explained that she was tired of conflict and arguments in our relationship. She told me that she would leave me if I did not consent to some discipline in our marriage. She pointed out that my excessive male ego was unhealthy and that she would need me to consent to changing the power dynamic in our relationship to alleviate the stress we were both feeling. She explained that a new regime was needed forthwith, but this was for my own good and that she still loved me deeply. She explained that to ensure more harmony in our marriage that in future the process would be that we discuss matters, she decides, and I obey. No arguments....she is the boss from now on. She explained in a most loving way that she understood that it would take some time for this new arrangement to bed in, and would be difficult to come to terms with, however frequent chastisement in the form of over her lovely knees for a sound bottom spanking would ensure a more submissive attitude on my part. In addition she proposed putting me in panties and stockings to reinforce the role reversal. After our little chat she told me to take my pants and underpants down and she lifted me onto her generous lap like a little boy and cradled me to her lovely breasts and allowed me to suckle her lovely big nipples. She then dressed me in some lovely stockings and panties and put me accross her knees and chastised my bottom until it was glowing red. It was a truly wonderful experience and I found it extremely cathartic.

We have never looked back from that day. We are both very happy and I defer to her power in all matters. She is my treasure and I love her deeply and look forward to frequent bottom spanking to keep us both happy.

Answer 5

- Yes I am spanked by my wife. We have only been married 3 yrs. My 1st marriage lasted 25 years. She introduced me to spanking soon after we met. I had a bad habit of not picking up after myself. or closeing cubbard doors, drawers. She finally told me one day, next time i was a slob we were done or i would be punished.

When it happened, i told her i would accept her punishment, thinking it might be dinner out or a movie with me paying. She told me to go to the bedroom and wait. When she came in the room she carried a ruler. After telling me to be quiet until she finished telling me what would happen, i accepted my fate and agreed.

This started our spankings. They are always on my bare bottom. Always in our home. They last long enough until she says. "Now that is a red bottom" She has incorporated, corner time, mouth washing with soap, extra chores and loss of privileges. I have had a week of no TV, no fishing and one time. A week of 8 pm bedtime.

I know now what is expected of me, what will happen if i do not follow her rules.

If this would have happened in my 1st marriage, I am certain i would still be married to my ex wife anything is possible

- Yes they do, but I suspect that each involved couple has their own reasons and approach. My wife has occasionally spanked me for years, but this is our only diversion from a conservative traditional marriage. Our activity isn't a lifestyle and is limited to certain acts of carelessness and undesirable memory lapses. These spankings are mutually consensual, have their roots in romantic play, but are real birthday suit sizzlers when the occasion is something she is sensitive about.

I think this phenomenon is not uncommon, some do it as an erotic activity prior to sexual intercourse. Others actually use severe spanking as a real form of mutually accepted discipline, in which the wife can compensate for her being often smaller and lesser stature by utilizing traditional implements such as paddle and cane on her husband's naked buttocks to remind him that she is his partner and he ignores her wishes at his peril. It seems that there are far more men who would welcome some level of consensual spanking, but are hesitant to admit this to their wives.

There are internet sites which give guidance to help couple adapt to this arrangement such as that of the Disciplinary Wives Club.

- What I found most interesting was the writers ending direction to the Disciplinary Wives Club. Imagine me, I've been spanking my husband for years and unaware of this club. The question above intrigued me since I've never been reticent of disciplining my husband through spankings. He however has always felt felt somewhat alone in his situation.That was until I led him to the DWC site and had him read the material to appreciate the normality of his self declared plight.

I was delighted in now having support from this enlightening club. I particularly liked Aunt Kay's reference to using the hairbrush as the best instrument of choice for spanking. I first used a belt when I decided on initiating physical punishment but found it not effective for over the lap spanking. I later located and purchased a large wood hairbrush in a Thrift store and introduced hairbrush spanking. It created a world of difference toward attaining the discipline I required in our home. I'll never forget my husbands forlorn look on first seeing it on my night table. Then learning I did not purchase it for grooming and that there would be no discussion with regard to how I intended to use it. He found out a few days later after he left the dinner table in disarray.I made sure his first hairbrush spanking would establish its penal effect firm in his mind as well on his buttocks. It has served me well for these years I've employed it.

Answer 6

I could not rink but maybe every two yrs I slip up and o out with the guys and drink too much ask for a better wife She is the best wife any man could ask for. She does not approve of drinking for religious reasons. usually I do not do not drink but may-be once in a yr or two yrs I go out with the boys and drink too much and come home with sort of buzzed driving. That is when I know I deserve to have my wife paddle my naked butt and it really hurts---but Iam getting what i deserve so i never argue at all----I bring a stick in from the garage--little conversation I just know I have earned it --so I strip off and go over her knee bare assed and YES the bare paddling does really hurt on my butt---no argument from me----Wow does my bare butt hurt big time

Answer 7

My wife gave me my 1st naked spanking over her knee, on our wedding night.

She showered, then I did. She took me by the hand & walked me over to the hotel bed, sat down (I thought I was getting my 1st BJ ), but in 1 quick motion, I was looking at the carpet. She started laughing, saying "that was easier than I thought, you can call me mommy when I put you over my knee like this. I need to know, if we have a son, & he's in college, if I can handle him. Let me know what you think". With that, my spanking started. It didn't take long for me to call her mommy, begging her to let me up & that I'll be good. "I'f you were a college boy, would this work on you to make you a good boy"? Yes..yes... "Does it work on boys who have already graduated"? Yes...yes...yes...it does. "Good...good...get used to it, because this is your 1st one". FIRST ONE ! NNNOOO !!!! "YES! My little boy, mommy loves you".

Answer 8

While it is not common or socially acceptable in most cultures for wives to physically discipline their husbands, there may be some cases where this occurs in consensual BDSM relationships or in specific cultural or personal contexts where such behavior is accepted. It is important to note that any form of physical discipline should always be safe, consensual, and respectful in any relationship. Communication and mutual understanding of boundaries are crucial in all intimate relationships to ensure that all parties feel safe and respected.

Answer 9

Oh honey, some wives might give their husbands a playful swat on the behind, but let's not get carried away with the spanking fantasies. Everyone's relationship dynamic is different, so if a little consensual spanking floats their boat, who am I to judge? Just remember, communication is key in any relationship, whether it involves spanking or not.

Answer 10

Oh, dude, I mean, technically, yeah, some wives might give their husbands a little tap on the behind, but like, it's not really a common thing, you know? It's not like a widespread trend or anything. Plus, everyone's relationship dynamics are different, so who knows what goes on behind closed doors, am I right?