Do you think your marriage is over if your husband - who cheated on his previous 2 wives - cheated on you too with a hooker after 2 years of marriage?

Answer 1

If you knew that he cheated on his past two wives, what made you think that you were any different? End it immediately, the whole marriage was a lie. You set yourself up for hurt. Of course, I know, cheating is cheating! You can not get away from that! But he did not have an affair - and one does not have affairs with a hooker - and he came back to you. This is just one step beyond masturbation. Sex with a hooker! Let's be honest: he really did not get involved with another woman. Don't ever forget that a man's sexual needs are much greater than those of a woman. (In spite of Masters and Johnson.) Discuss the sexual aspect of your marriage with him. Talk, talk and more talk. Be frank about yours and your husband's sexual needs. Consider a compromise. But, in the end, if you need more specific help consult Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and other Disasters" or Gottman's "Seven Principles That Can Make your Marriage Work." These two books give you specifics on how to resolve your marriage problems.