Does a shy guy care if they've upset you?

Answer 1

Maybe, maybe not. Shy just means introverted. It's the opposite of being outgoing and social. Shy doesn't mean "cares about people's feelings."

Shy people are often more caring and sensitive to other people's feelings. Since shy people are often socially awkward, they get picked on and ostracized a lot at school when they're growing up. Consequently, they often have a heightened awareness of, and sensitivity towards, other people's feelings.

But this is only a generalization, not a universal truth. Shy people can also be cruel and uncaring.

Also, just because someone is generally caring and sensitive, doesn't mean they care about YOUR feelings specifically. Maybe they don't like you. Or maybe they just don't know you well enough to care very much about your feelings.

So, there is really not enough information to answer this question accurately. You would need to provide specific details about the situation. Which you can do on the Discussion page of this question, if you want.