Depends on the illness and the affect on the health and safety of the child.
YEahhh!
the only thing in my eyes that would make a mother unfit if she is uncapable of putting her kids before drugs .
Yes and no. If the biological parent is proven unfit to care for they're children then the step parent has the right to APPLY for custody of his/her step children. Keep in mind that being married to the biological parent doesn't automatically make them the parent of the children nor does it make them they're legal guardian so there are no guarantees that the step parent will be given custody. If the children are happy with the step parent and no one in the biological parents family protest the application and the step parent is proven fit to care for the child(ren) then most usually the courts will award the step parent custody.
it doesn't make you an unfit parent. Every one loses their temper. Just do not let it escalate to the point of hitting... and grabbing by the collar is a little bit extreme. You might want to calm down a bit before punishing.
weel her mom sounds like a catholic to me. well there is nothing you can do. but your girlfriend could get a restraining order. your girlfriend needs to make shore she is doing everything that she needs to be as a parent and if she's not dss will find out. ok and the her mom could try to get grandparents rights as well. you need to be aware of that also. her mother can't prove she is unfit if there is no evidence of her being an unfit parent.
You do not take custody of a child from a mother who you think is an unfit parent. You petition a court to make a determination that the parent is unfit and grant custody or a guardianship to you. See related link regarding the factors a court considers in determining a parent to be unfit.
Prove the household unfit.
I would think not. Obviously if this said parent had limited visitation then they have been deemed an unfit parent and therefore have no right to decide how the child should or shouldn't be raised.
As long as he has been established as the father and has not been deemed an unfit parent, the court will grant visitation rights.
You cannot make?a court do anything, they are not subject to your authority, however, if you believe that the custodial parent is unfit due to alcoholism or drug abuse, your lawyer can file a lawsuit requesting that a urine test be ordered by the court.
depending on the age of the child, the courts may evaluate your situation in making a decision on which parent will maintain custodial status. If the parent to which you are interested in living with, your parent must also participate with the courts to make a final decision as to your residency and whom you reside with.
Being a parent does not make one an adult. Only age will make you an adult.