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For the marriage to work, BOTH must be happy. You may want to seek counsel from a marriage counselor, or mediator, to find out what she's not happy about, and why. If she's not happy, then you won't be either. A marriage, being the the symbol of two into one, means that if one has a concern, or problem, it is then the problem or concern of you both. If there are children involved, a separate counselor, or family counselor/mediator, should be sought for them as well. If you think that she is not interested in counseling and trying to make your marriage better, then you might want to get the help of an attorney and possibly do a trial separation. Right now she has the advantage of having you there when she needs you.
Regardless of what causes the breakdown of a marriage, both parents have equal rights to their children. One parent having an affair doesn't necessarily put their children in danger, nor does it make them a bad parent. Making a bad choice that negatively affects the marriage doesn't change the fact that you are both responsible for your children and have rights to them.
No. Having children is a huge responsibility and life long commitment. Things are no longer about you or what you want let alone your spouse - it is all about your child or children. You have to want to be unselfish and giving, tentative, responsible, empathetic, sympathetic, understanding, patient, caring, and realize that your committing to that child for the rest of yours or their life. I'm not saying that it couldn't be happy - I'm saying that a reason to have a child is not to make you more happy because that is a selfish thought and statement.
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Sweetie, if married man or married men are happy with their marriage, do you think they have reason to cheat and betrayed their wife? Some will do because it's their nature. They can not be satisfied with just one woman or a wife. Some married man will take a while before they end up having affair, reason is for his selfishness. There's a lot of happy marriage that husband have affairs, not only the one who's having problem. But if you put all this together, men do make their own bed and they also lay on it.
Try to make her laugh or stick it in her
Having kids is something that is natural and both people in a relationship have some of an idea about. You should feel comfortable with the person before starting a family. You should sit down and discuss the responsibilities of having kids. A baby is a joy and can effect a couple in a positive or negative way. If the children are rough on the marriage it depends on the couple. Yes kids are loud, and it seems they never sit still, and they sometimes want to make you rip your hair out they are a joy. Having children is a tea effort, and both people should understand the effort before they start the family.
It was great! He loved her to death! He did everything he could to make her happy!
Because most don't care about weddings and get married just for the child's sake afterwards and others want to make sure you can have a baby before they marry you...
Certainly! A marriage does not equal man, woman, + children. Marriage = man + woman. Children are a result of marriage. You should still love each other like you did before children became a possibility. You can also look into adoption, surrogacy, and in vitro. Your marriage should not be dependent upon children you should still be in love with just the two of you and be able to make things work enen though plans have changed.
So they'll look after you in your old age or because there is nothing more pleasing than happy children. If you're not making them happy you're making them miserable and who would want that?