Does men fall in love with their misstresses?

Answer 1

it's possible, but not likely. a lot of men if asked and they honestly answer, view their mistresses as one thing and one thing only and that is a piece of a$$. they may say that they love the one they are cheating on with this mistress, but the truth of the matter if someone loves you they wouldn't cheat on you. a man with a mistress that is cheating on his girlfriend or wife simply doesn't love anyone- the mistress or the wife/girlfriend. he's actually too into himself to care about how someone else feels. from the girlfriend's point of view- he's cheating on you with someone else so he really doesn't care about you. from the mistress's point of view- she may not even know this guy has a girlfriend. so she is in turn being used and lied to and treated like a "hooker" in a sense. the fault does not lie in neither the girlfriend or the mistress, but in the man. women who beat up on the person their boyfriend/husband are cheating on them with shouldn't blame them, but should be mad at the man. he was in complete control of everything. he is the one who lied to both the girlfriend/wife and the mistress. if the mistress knows of the man's relationship with someone else, then she is just as low as the man is. but your relationship lies with the man not with the mistress. the man made a choice to cheat, he didn't have to do that.