How and where do i connect the 4 wires into the breaker box?

Sounds like 220 V service. You need to connect the white one to the neutral bar (look for white wire from power source, black to one power on one side of breaker, red to other side of breaker, and the ground wire (can be green, usually bare) to the ground bar. Look for other bare wires. This assumes you have a 220V breaker.

If you don't have a 220 V breaker, then you are hooking up 120V with a 220V capable wire. I would suggest just ignore the red (clip it off), unless you have another breaker you want to use. In this case, you could hook the red to a separate breaker instead of clipping - just make sure the wire is properly rated. The wire is then carrying two circuits.