You cannot. You simply cannot.
If the narcissist regards you as a potential future source of narcissistic supply, he will seek to compromise. If he has given up on you as a source of supply - he will fight you tooth and nail.
Probably not, they would fight over mirror time. ;)
Try counseling.
If the visits are already court ordered, see if the court can also provide a mediater so that you do not have to be anywhere near the "narcissist" when having the visits. If the court can not provide you with this nessesary service, find an agengy, a trusted freind ANYONE but yourself. Good Luck
A narcissist would not want help because he or she would not think there was anything wrong. Therefore, you can't help a narcissist; even when a narcissist is court ordered into therapy, there is little a professional can do to help a person change this personality type.
Fighting a narcissist is very difficult. You need the help of expert legal counsel.
A borderline. Essentially a more emotionally reactive narcissist.
You still have the pay the ticket or go to court to fight it signed or not.
The court is attempting to send the juvenile to be tried in adult court
Have your LAWYER speak for you. Be professional in dress and manner. Do NOT make eye contact with the narcissist. Be truthful. Write out everything you want them to know about him and speak NON-EMOTIONALLY about his conduct... JOURNAL & DOCUMENT so you have back up.
If you want to win.
A person's characteristics mean nothing. Use the evidence and the documents you have gathered, within the restraints of the laws that apply, just as you would in any case.