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How do you get your boyfriends trust back after you lied to him?
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∙ 10y ago
If your boyfriend is like that for one thing... he is not a good boyfriend (most of the time). Ask him what he feels and just don't bring that up. Just try. Now, this varries depending on the situation... well, I'm sorry if this didn't help. :S
It takes time to regain trust. It may help to explain why you lied, apologize and be truthful in the future. If he truley means that that there is "no way to forgive", then you should move to end the relationship.
First of all, don't ever lie to him again. And I don't mean don't get caught, I mean don't do it at all no matter how tempting it is or how small a thing.
If he honestly refuses to ever trust you again, it's time to break it off. If he hasn't broken it off yet that tells me he wants to give you another chance; don't waste it! Try to understand how he feels, maybe hurt, betrayed, or like he isn't worth your honesty?
Lots of talking helps. Tell him it's ok to be angry (for a while), and let him tell you how hurt he is. I don't know how serious you are with him but seeing a counselor, even just by yourself, can help you to learn why you lied and how you can prevent it in the future. That can save a future relationship if not this one.
He may eventually forgive you, but don't expect him to forget what happened.
Good luck to both of you.
answer: to whomever posted the first answer, you are wrong. you are gravely mistaken. The person who LIED is the one with the fault in the relationship. if he doesn't forgive you, that is it. you can't make him trust you (short of saving his life). so unless you can save him from some form of life threatening disaster, move on. and stop lying to your partners and you won't have to ask such silly questions
: whoever posted thelast one saying the first one was wrong is a bit harsh. the person who posted this question asked for our opinions not for people to argue with others. The person who lied does have a fault yes but maybe you should try to talk to him ask if there is anything you can do to get him to trust you again.If you stay by him through anything it may help and try not to lie again. Many things can be tempting but are they worth losing him?
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∙ 8y ago
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∙ 16y agoYears ago, I made the samee mistake that you did. I keep secrets and lied to the man that I cared for and deeeply loved, too. It backfired on me in the worst way. He was able to read right through all my lies. Truth of the matter, hun. You need to come clean with him once and for all. i know it sounds like a big step, but it has to be done. If you wait too long to do it, you lose him forever or, be in my position, and trying desperately to make ammends for everything. Sit down and have a heart 2 heart. If you really care for him, he knows to know everything...the good and the bad. You owe that to him and to yourself. Don't be scared. Be honest.
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∙ 10y agoYou don't. You'll just have to earn it back & let time pass. You have to accept that he'll doubt everything you say for a little while & wonder if what you say to him from that point on is a lie.
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∙ 12y agoYou cant he maby still wont trust you so find a new boyfriend
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How do I gain my husband's trust back after I lied?
That depends on what you lied about, and why and how.
Will you boyfriend take you back after you lost his trust?
If you can regain your boyfriends trust he may take you back.
I told a lie four years ago and now i got caught up in it and has lost my boyfriends trust and respect.How do I recover from a lie I told four years ago and gain my boyfriends trust back?
he has to give his trust to you and watch you demonstrate that you are worth it if he doesn't give you his trust in advance, there's nothing you can do :-)
How do you gain your boyfriends trust when they already have trust issues?
tell him to trust or bust.
What if your boyfriend doesnt believe what you say because you lied to him ounce what should I do?
What if your boyfriend doesn't believe what you say because you lied to him once? what should I do? Was your boyfriend trusting and good before you lied? Was the thing you lied about big enough to warrant his mistrust? If you lied to him about something big, or if you have a habit of lying to him about things, then you need to earn back his trust. If you broke his trust then it is yours to fix. If, however, you lied to him about whether or not you ate the last piece of pie and he says he cannot trust you, then you may need to reevaluate whether or not you are with a quality person.
How do you handle being lied to constantly?
You only be lied to if you listen. Drop the lier.
How do you make up that you lied to your boyfriend?
You don't. You have to let him decide when or if he forgives you at all. Once trust is broken, it's very difficult to get it back.
How to deal with my boyfriends trust issues?
Confront his problem and ask him why
Would you still trust your best friend if they lied to you a lot?
It's easy for someone to just get your trust back rather than work for it. I think she should earn it back. Have her show to you that she is worth keeping as a friend and prove she can be honest as well as a good friend.
How do you trust your boyfriend after he lied so much?
There is no "way" to trust someone. Once trust is broken, nothing but time& security will fix it.
What do you do to make your wife trust you because you lied?
Be very nice to her and next time you have the chance to tell the truth, do so. Women are very fragile, like a vase. Treat her with delicacy. Soon you will earn back her trust.
How do you tell a girl you lied about not caring for them when before you always told them you loved them?
Admit you lied, apologies, explain why you did it, and ask her that you hope she can forgive you. Then see how things go for a few weeks. You have seriously damaged her ability to trust you, and you'll have to earn that back.
