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How can you intentionally fall in love with a guy whom you do not love at all but who loves you very much?


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September 13, 2011 5:07AM

Unless it's a cultural ritual that you are with this person and have to learn to love them or at least go through the motions then this is something you are going to have to deal with. If this is not the case then you are going to lead one miserable life if you don't be honest with the person that is in love with you. To date or live with a person you don't love with only end up hurting the both of you. Honesty is the best policy!


Sounds like you are trying to force yourself to love this guy and if that is the case then he isn't the man for you. If you do not feel the same way this guy does that loves you very much then seek companionship elsewhere you will waste both of your lives and lots of money........Move on girl....