It is very hard if not impossible. My baby's father cant be in a relastionship with me because he was hurt very bad in a previos relationship. But if you do find out please let me know
You cannot "make" anyone do something that they need to work out for themselves. Time heals all wounds and this person has to want to be able to move on to begin the healing and work through their issues.When a person makes a statement 'love ain't worth the hurt', they have probably been very hurt by someone in one or more relationships and so hurt they are afraid to take another stab at a relationship for fear of being hurt again.
You might be able to get your ex-boyfriend to start talking to you again by being honest with him and apologizing for anything that you might have done to hurt him. This could work even if you are not necessarily looking for another relationship and just want to be friends.
She had a sensation of fear from this relationship. She didn't want to be hurt again.
built the trust in the relationship first
It is when 2 organisms dont help or hurt one another
commensialism
A great relationship isn't something you can promise her 100% because no relationship is without it's problems. She must have been hurt before and is afraid of getting into another relationship, or, she doesn't feel the same way about you. You can't make someone have the same feelings towards you as you have for them.
The one thing you can do is stop worrying so much about being hurt, but to enjoy and live the moment, that is the only way forward, and start loosening up, otherwise you will become staid and boring to your partner. Lighten up.
It is best to move on without him at this point. He is obviously not ready for a relationship and if it has happened this many times it is bound to happen again. It is best you leave this before you are hurt again - do what is best for you!!
Whipped
Here's one very likely possibility: It could mean that she was hurt in her last relationship, and now... even though she likes you ... she's afraid to get into another relationship because she's afraid of being hurt again. It could also mean ... at the same time ... that she's smart enough to know what's going on in her head, and honest enough to share the knowledge with you. This is just a wild guess; I could be wrong. Maybe she likes you, but is not ready for a relationship with anyone yet as she still has issues to do with being hurt before.
They may have been hurt once before and assume they're going to be hurt again...