You can't 'motivate' someone to stop self harming. It's not that simple. he needs a professional. e.g child mental health professional.
tell him that it is hurting your relationship with him and threaten that you will dump him if he doesn't stop that will motivate him to stop most likely.
Here are three sentences using the word 'motivate': "It is very difficult to know what will motivate children to do more work." "We are hoping that Lucy's end of year report will motivate her to do better next year." "Having support from family and friends will motivate John to run faster in the race."
To address a 12-year-old's misbehavior, it's important to establish clear expectations and consequences. Engage in open communication to understand the underlying reasons for their behavior, and encourage them to express their feelings. Consistent positive reinforcement for good behavior can also help motivate change. Finally, consider involving them in problem-solving strategies to promote accountability and self-regulation.
See a psychiatrist immediately.
Stop worrying about others worry about your self snitch!!
Speak with an intervention specialist about getting him into treatment. Huffing propane will eventually cause brain damage or death. The self-abuse is a minor issue that can be dealt with later.
get some you know they like and try to make them smile they'll probley get up
That will depend on the person, how long they have been chewing, though if someone starts to get a craving I suggest gum or practcing self will and self disapline
it may be a bit strange but you are not harming anyone so go ahead :)
did not stop, didn't stop I did not stop smoking until last year.
This Year
He looked like a mixture of his 13 year old self and his 15 year old self.