How can you reconcile with your ex if he seems to hate you?

Answer 1

I'm in a similar situation and am taking the whole situation as a learning and growth experience, so I'll just share some of what I've learned. Everybody says to give up and move on. I've discovered that this is not the right answer, it's just the easy way out. First, you need to assess whther you love the ex enough to put in the work it's going to take to rebuild the relationship. Second, you have to honestly own what it is you did wrong to contribute to the demise of the relationship. You always contribute some negativity, it's never a one-sided thing. When you own up to your deal-breaking behaviours, you have to be willing to change. It's long, it's arduous, you'll be discouraged, but you have to be totally determined to stick it out. Keep being nice and friendly to your ex, even when he rebuffs you. Show that you still care, but don't ever say it. The two of you can sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk about what problems you both were having, and you have to demonstrate to him your changed personality. Over time the two of you can slowly rebuild the trust and rediscover the love and have a better relationship than before the breakup. It's a lot of hard work and self-sacrifice, but this is what a real relationship is. If you prefer the heady feeling of infatuation and being "in love" then the best route for you is to recover from the breakup and move on to the next relationship, like the usual advice says. Good luck and I wish you love.

Answer 2

If they hate you chances are, you won't get them back, and you probably should move on.

However, you could try to mending what was broken, be it trust, feelings, pride, and so on. Show them that you still care for them and that you'd like another chance. Apologize for what you did to them and hope they want to take you back.

Answer 3

You shouldn't even waste your time on worrying whether your ex b/f loves or hates you. It's his problem and he's in the past. Move on! We can't please everyone in this world and we all need to get use to the idea that some people are going to like us and some people won't like us. I certainly hope you aren't trying to keep in contact. If so, stop! Just don't do anything..you may try talking to him and asking him why but I'd say just forget him.He is probably really hurt and can't deal with it so he turned it into anger, since it's so much easier to deal with.

Answer 4

suck his penis

Answer:

Tell him to give you a chance. Be nice to him. But don't be all whiney and say like please forgive me and such. They could get irritated/annoyed by that.

Answer 5

The sad part is YOU can't do anything. Naturally after a break up, someone's going to get hurt, this can be turned into hate. My advice would be to forgive yourself, move on; because waiting for him to not hate you is wasted time.

Answer 6

If your ex hates you try to figure out the reason first. After that if its was your mistake , apologize to him. Try to convince him that are you really sorry.