well, whenever I'm shy around boys/boyfriends, i usually get my friend to ask them the things I'd like. for example get your friend to hint you want a hug. then by the time you have done that a few times you will automatically start doing it yourself!
You can talk to him about anything!! If you don't know how to start a conversation, just say this:
(pretend his name is Brandon)
Hi Brandon
How are you?
How is your day?
What makes your day so good/bad?
Cool, so what's going on
Ok so that is just how to start it off. Then just continue in from there and tell him whatever random things pop up into your mind.
Some good topics are:
-hobbies
-sports
-television
-embarrassing moments
-something to laugh about
-himself/yourself
-ask him open ended questions, not yes or no questions
-your interests
-his interests
-things you have in common
All of these topics should create conversations. But remember, you don want to talk about yourself too much or he might get annoyed. Guys like to talk about themselves. And please, do not take out your phone every 5 minutes. That will really irritate him. And then DO NOT treat him like he is one of your girlfriends.. As much. Because guys do not care about the latest fashion or the details of a pretty dress. And they will think your crazy if you talk to them about shoes. All of that is gurl talk. Talk to him more about what your girlfriends talk about but just no girl talk. It's be yourself and don't try too hard to impress him.
Good luck!! Hope this helped!!:)
You get on mutual ground, a private place, somewhere where only you and he can go. Most fellas don't like to be backed into a corner. You just need time to get to know each other and to find common interests. That's all it is. It is awkward because you don't know much about each other.
Obviously if he's your boyfriend he must love you just the way you are. Many men don't like 'chatty Cathy's' and prefer a woman of few words. If he enjoys talking then let him talk. Give yourself time to get to know him and as time passes you will feel more comfortable with him. Don't be afraid to communicate your problems to him (he should be your best friend) and just let him know you are shy. I'm sure he knows this already. Just be you and Mother Nature will take care of the rest.
its also possible nothing is really wrong its just you can have a crush but when you get a boyfriend its hard to talk to them
Well, I think that being a boyfriend, or girlfriend in this case, means that you need to talk to him. If you really like him then you would want to talk to him all the time. The point of being in a relationship is getting to know your girlfriend/boyfriend better. If you don't talk to him, how are you and your boyfriend going to build a stronger relationship? So to answer your question, No I don't think you are being a 'good' girlfriend if you never talk to him.
She is probably trying to be flirty. If she is actually afraid to talk to him then maybe he is abusive or she is hiding something from him.
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anything. just like you would normally. Because he probably likes you for who u really are so don't be afraid to talk about the things you and your friends usually talk about. That's what i do with my Boyfriend
you should wait for him to talk to you :) <3
Talk to him the way you would talk to a friend. After all, he is you boyFRIEND.
There are many reasons why a boyfriend gets jealous. One reason is because he may be afraid to lose you.
Assuming that the people involved are not children, but are old enough to be in relationships, I would not take this as a good sign. It may be premature to refer to this person as your boyfriend. There are some things you need to talk over.
Whatever the hell you want. If you want to talk to him, talk to him. Don't let fear run your life.
tell her to get over it get some help talk to someone you trust and try and ask your boyfriend why he's being a doofus and talk to your friends about it, maybe someone whos had this problem before
If your boyfriend's ex is threatening you, you should let your boyfriend know. He may be able to talk to her and help her to deal with their breakup. If this doesn't help, you may have to tell the police, esp if you're afraid that she might hurt you.
Any respectable boyfriend will not talk too much about his girlfriend.