Your husband is obviously regretting what he did.
It is your decision though to take him back.
If you love him maybe give him a second chance.
If she is trying to get him back, or still wants him.. Then I would believe your husband. If she is absolutely done with him, then believe her. Good Luck!!
Look you shouldn't take him back at all.
This happens quite often. He wants a woman in his life and you're available. He will say he's sorry, but he isn't. If the affair had continued he would still be with her. Be very careful about trusting him. If they cheat once, they will cheat again.
It means that he's not honest. Don't worst your time. He's an ex for a reason now so move on girl.
Time mends a broken heart when a wife is broken hearted over her husband's affair. It is a grieving process much like losing a loved one to death. Once the husband cheats he has broken that bond of trust with his wife which is devastating to her and it will take time for him to earn her trust back. The wife must go down her own road of life alone to decide what she wants from her husband; how to handle the situation after the affair and if she wants to remain in the marriage or seek out marriage counseling. If the wife feels by cheating on her husband she will either get even with him or mend her broken heart it will not and proves nothing leaving her feeling used and guilty for lowering herself to her husband's level.
When your husband has an affair and apologizes this is not good enough to fully trust him because he decided on his own to break that bond of trust you both once had for each other by having the affair. Make him earn your trust back and if he really loves you and is not a man that has had more than one affair then seek marriage counseling to help give you the tools to make your marriage stronger.
All you can really do is let him know that you are willing to be there for him should he decide to come back to you. But chances are, if he still loves you and wants you back, he'll find a way to get back to you.
First of all screw your husband for having a affair but back to the subject if u really love your husband and he loves u should SHOW HIM WHO'S BOSS i know this sounds a little un-orthodox he should be the one bringing you flowers and gifts and if he still dines it and doesn't do anything loving for you on your anniversary dont be loving or nice.good luck hun!
He wants to bang other chicks but wants to keep you around as a fallback or back up.
If he still loves you and you want to get back together withhim, then it's okay but he has to be okay with it first.
Ria ends her 'almost' affair, but also gets angry with her husband and tells him she is going to leave him. After running into her almost affair man again, she changes her mind and goes back home to her husband.
if a man loves the woman then he wants his love returned back so they both can live happily