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I am not sure what this is all about and what your age is. If you are young and your father was abusive and suddenly dumped you then he has simply grown tired of you and is looking for another victim. When people are abusive they don't have the slightest idea what a normal relationship is so his abusive manner will just keep going on and on. Be glad that he is out of your life. If you were a caregiver to your elderly father and waited on him hand and foot and he has found some independence that's a "yippee" for you and enjoy your new found freedom. Abusers don't care about their victim. They want to control them to suit their own enviornment, but the very control they ask of the victim, they detest and prefer someone to stand up to them, believe it or not. The game becomes boring for them. You have a chance to get to know who you are and know the strengths that lay deep within you (and they do) you've just never had a chance to find them. There is so much of your life to live, people to meet and yes, someone to love. You deserve to be treated like a human being and to be loved. You'll find that when you gain your strength. Good luck God Bless Marcy

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