How do a 14-year-old and her boyfriend tell their parents that she is pregnant?
You sit down with both parents at the same time. Come to the
table with a plan in your mind, if you have one. Such as, how is
this baby going to be taken care of, who will take the baby to the
doctor, who will be financially responsible, at 14 years old in
most states, you cannot work. Do me a favor, if your not pregnant,
practice safe sex or abstenance in the future. You are way too
young to have a baby. Be sure you think about how this is going to
affect the rest of your life. If you are pregnant and choose not to
keep the child, there are wonderful, loving couples in America that
will pay you to be surrogate and or adopt the child afterward.
Either way those are wonderful options to consider at your age.
You're not the first to be in this situation and your parents are
not the first to hear this type of news. My opinion is that you
each tell your own parents at the same time, you with your parents,
him with his parents, in each respective home. Then the two
families need to get together with you and your boyfriend to plan