Basic etiquette states that you should never ask for money from your guests. If they would like to give you money they will do so discreetly.
no if they need it
The most delicate way to ask for money is to mention in the invitation that a 'money tree' will be present. This means that the bride and groom have a medium to large sized tree (you can make it yourself or buy it at a party shop) and it should go on a special table. The tree would be approximately 2 - 3 feet high and sometimes are just branches without leaves and with tiny close pegs on it so that guests can put money into their wedding cards to you and it is pegged onto the tree. Be sure your maid of honor when you later open these cards is aware there is money in the card so you can thank the guests. Some guests will still prefer to give you a gift instead of money.
Invite to wedding/wedding anniversaryDear ......You are cordially invited to ....... and ....'s weddingIt is on the ........The bride and groom would prefer money as a gift, rather than presents.Sincerly,....... and .....
You can only expect money if you request it such as a 'money tree' instead of gifts. It's a tree with branches and the money is in the wedding card from a guest and then pinned onto the tree. You cannot predict just how much money you will receive. More money will probably be given by the parents of the bride and groom and with Italian and other cultures they can give a fair amount of money not only from the parents, but relatives.
I do not know. Dont ask me! Ask someone else
In the wedding invitation express that the bride and groom are leaving the country so instead of gifts there will be a 'money tree.' The money tree is easily made (branches) with small clips to hold the wedding cards with the money inside of the card. Be sure to sent thank you cards to each guest, but it is not necessary to mention the amount of money they have given the bride and groom.
When a bride and groom do not want guests to brings gifts on the invitation they can see 'no gifts requested.' If you would rather have money then write in the invitation 'Money Tree.' A Money Tree is a fake tree where the wedding cards with money inside are clipped onto the tree with tiny clips. Some couples prefer this so they can buy the things they need or put the money towards their honeymoon or simply save the money.
no. when you have the wedding you will already have the wedding dress on though.
yes! it is common for wedding couples to ask instead of gifts. In this day and age there are 1. many people who are living together already and have everything they need. 2. people are getting married later in life . 3. some it is their second wedding. so gifts are not needed and money is better.
* Yes, this would be acceptable in today's etiquette and a relief for many guests as it will be easier on them. In your wedding invitation put a money card inside for the convenience of your guests.
61st wedding anniversary corresponds to a "plane-tree" ... !
Only if you ask him or her.