Well have a friend that wears one first. Trust me that will help. Thats how i got mine or just say "mom i think i need a better bra now." dont be shy, be proud because now you have a self cofidence builder. And guys will like you too.
Just say "Mom I think I'm ready for a padded bra!" If she sayys no than say mom all the girls in my class have on and I geet emberassed when I'm around them.
i can't either. my friend did. she legit walked up to her mom and said ''mom, i want a padded bra." and she bought her one.
Your mom was once your age: the age where you need one. Don't be afraid to ask her because she once had to do the same thing. But don't ask her when she is in a bad mood or when she is busy, or she will most likely say no. Start off with a training bra or sports bra, and then you can move on to padded ones or cupped ones once you are used to wearing a bra. Most Muslim moms do not want their girls to be wearing the padded bras or cup bras, at least when they first start wearing a bra. If she says no, she knows what is best for you.
Hey honey. Best thing is to take it slow.Tell your mom you feel concious of your breasts and get a training bra - and whilst you're shopping for it, ask if you can try different styles, and pick up a padded one to try. Be understanding of your mom though, if you're still not wearing a training bra - likelyhood is your boobs aren't big, so they don't need support. But always try with the padded bras, it's okay to have a little extra help to make you more confident!
Hi, mom, I need to ask a favor. Could you help me buy a bra? Remember, your mom once got her first bra . . . it's not going to be a mystery to her.
Hiya, what i did was to just go shopping with my mom and pick out a padded bra i liked but pretended i didnt know it was padded when your mom says something about it being padded just say you really like it and put ur puppy eyes on hope this helpedbyeeeee x
Because your mom does not want you to Grow up fast and have bigger bra than your actually boobs. And she just don't think you need need padded bra's your probably not old enough.
Can we get one that will help me fill out my clothes better?
Mom, i have to ask you a question... my breasts are growing and i think i need a bigger bra.
go up to your mum and tell her that you need some new bras and that you would like to be there when she is buying them, if she sees that you have a padded bra say that u need something comfortable for sport.
If You feel nervous you and me are alike! I had her understand when I got the thinnest shirt i had so you could see my chest easily. It was kind of embarrassing but at least she got the clue and said, "dang girl, you need a bra" a real one. I did this in public. if that doesn't work you ask her if you could go to Walmart and get something for your needs. or when you are at a store you see a bra say , mom can I try it on. I promise she will buy it.
1.If your to scared to tell your mom then before you go to bed, write a note that you need a bra and in the morning she should tell you that we'll go bra shopping after school .2.You couldjust say mom i need a bra she will buy one for you.3. Or when you guys are at a clothing store, just pick a bra out and say mom my friend said i shuld get one of these cause she got one and i feel left out :[Im 11 and i did the best to provide u with the best answers :]