tell them that there is no way you want to be with them and that you don't love them anymore but if they're cool with it you would like to bang?
I mean that's the POLITE way to do it...most guys just say i love you baby and hump and dump...which is an option too however, what guys don't realize is that if you do that you are LITERALLY setting yourself up to have a crazy ex girlfriend. cuz she WILL think you still love her....
If the break up was mutual and you still want to keep your ex in your life then definitely become friends with them, but if it was a nasty break up or you don't think you can just have "friendly" feelings towards the person then its best to not become friends.
depends on if he is willing to become friends
well if u become best friends with your ex then it should be easier but it can be scary. write him a note or tell him in person. the least he can say is no. good luck
If your ex wants you to be friends with benefits, and you as well, but he disappears later on, then he is afraid that you will get attached so much.
Some ex-spouses are friends with each other, and some become enemies. I don't think it has anything to do with whether they are Christian or not.
You forget about her and move on. If you two were friends, try to become friends again (this may take a while).
It's possible, but it's far more likely that he loves the benefits.
AnswerIt sucks, and they'll probably talk about you a lot. But it's not the end of the world. Maybe you and your ex-girlfriend can become friends again. No way Man. You be screwed the ex tells the why of the breakup & she'll even lie to make you out to be the bad guy.
coming from a guy, if you really think that he wants to be with you, you should draw that line between you to and tell him that you want more and if he says that he doesnt want more then just friends with benefits, end the benefits.
Friends with benefits are friends that have sex without the issue of a relationship being in the way. Its practically like having planned one night stands with someone. To become one? Just get in the person's pants. Nothing that complicated just have sex with the other person but don't get attached.
If he can put the past aside there is a chance, but that takes time.
This new fad of ex boyfriends and ex girlfriend being friends is a fallacy in itself and 'ex' means the relationship is over and both parties should move forward in their own lives and stop trying to be friends. You said that you broke up badly with no talking and that is the way he obviously wants to keep it. It is time for you to walk away from your ex.