How do you break up with someone meanly?

Answer 1

• No matter what that person has done to you to make you want to hurt them when you break up with them two wrongs do not make a right! By doing so you are no better than they are. Have faith in yourself and know you are better than they are and move on from them and into a brighter future. A quote I admire: 'If you do not forgive the person who hurt you then they own you!' That means while you still have hatred in your heart that consumes you enough to want to break up with them in the meanest form you can muster up then that person has won and you are sinking to their all time low. Just move on and let this person hang themselves with their own rope (most do.) That means you reap what you sow.

I agree with the above, but if you must do it meanly, I suggest doing it in a public place or in front of the other's family.

Here's an example: my sister used to have a rather mean, abusive boyfriend. She broke up with him. I had a lot of fantasies about hurting him physically in all kinds of different ways.. But the thing is; what good would what that do my sister? Now that he's gone he can no longer hurt her anymore. All that would accomplish is to turn me into a creature of hate. It's not like hurting him is going to give back the years she wasted. Do you see what I mean? At the end of the day getting revenge only makes you more bitter than you were before. People who deliberately hurt other people are just miserable people, and that's really all there is to it. You might not think the antagonist could really be a sad person, after all they're "winning". But trust me, they are.. They reallyare.. You can either break it off up front, or just stop talking to them and "phase out". All that really matters is you are enjoying your life the majority of the time.

Answer 2

Technically and otherwise, ond can't really break up using "nicely words". Break ups mean you are breaking someone's heart, assuming the other person was happy in the rekationship. Now, I don't whether you're a guy who wants to break up with a girl or ghe other wsy round but whatever you do; DO NOT LIE. Call him/her over a cup of coffe or whereverit is you hang out but with minimum changes of running into a friend. Thats just plain embarrassing. Then, gently break it to him/her that you're unhappy in the relstionship and it would be best if you could stop seeing each other. Explain to them ghe exact reasons behind your decision. No one can ensure a pleasant response. If anything, it will be tougher ti handle than the normal fights a couple faces. After you state your reasons, hear the other person out and do not givd fake/ false hopes ofgetting back together in the future if you don't actually mean it. Apologize, it won't kill you to say sorry. Don't use cliches like lets be friends and you deserve better. Be honest, and try your best not to come across as a hue jackass on a heart breaking spree. Respect the other person, thank them for whatever time you spent and finally offer them a shoulder to cry on, if thats what they need. Well, there you have it. Good luck!