How do you breakup with someone you love dearly because they have been there for you and stuck by you through thick and thin and they are all you have but you know he's seeing other women?

Answer 1

I am very sorry to hear you are going through this. The best thing to do is start communicating with him and have a long talk about your relationship (without yelling, screaming or crying.) It's true that a couple in love are there for each other 100%, but sometimes the scales can be imbalanced and it appears you are the one with too many problems and he may be just plain worn out. Hon, you have to start relying on yourself more, becoming more independent and learn how to 'problem solve' some of the problems you may be experiencing. You can ask for advice, but in many cases a woman is quite capable of resolving her own problems. I am not accusing you of anything and when people have a lot of problems it's easy to lean on one person or many too often. You need a couple of good girlfriends you can trust and vent some of your problems too. A relationship shouldn't be all problems, but some fun mixed in as well. So girl, get up, dust yourself off, have that talk with your boyfriend and see how you can repair this relationship. Start learning to count on yourself for resolving some of your problems, but there is no harm on leaning a little on your boyfriend. Make friends, volunteer some place and start realizing you are stronger than you think. Good luck