I suggest you go to get help from an transgender community in your area. They will guide you and give you support. If you look online you may find them in your area or seek a counselor who works with transgender rights and issues. Only you know if you can go to your parents.
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This question is very nonspecific. You may want to specify what exactly it is you're wondering; for example, how do you come out to your parents? What steps do I need to take to get a sex change? I hope you find the answer you're looking for!
It comes at birth between a male legs
wait till child is old enough to decide for themselves
Whenever it is both comfortable and safe. Also, choose who to come out to first.
There is a site called pridenet.com that looks like it has a lot of possibilities. You can just put Transgender New Jersey in the search engine and a lot of sites should come up.
Transgender is an adjective.
Transgender = Трансгендерность (Transgendernost')
Yes, transgender is real. There are both transgender women and transgender men. People who feel that their gender assignment of birth is at odds with who they are do exist.
Transgender Warrior was created in 2003.
Neither are transgender.
Yes, transgender people exist.