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How do you continue to love someone once you do not trust them?
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∙ 16y ago
You really can't. If you choose to place priority on your connection to this person above self love you are telling this person that they are more important to you than you are to yourself. You're making this person more important than the truth. You're saying that YOU would rather live the lie than to experience reality (even if it is painful). At some point you will need to distance yourself from this person. If it is a relative sibling parent, child, etc), decrease your interaction as you can't always get rid of family. If it is a spouse or friend you may be on your way to a separation of truth as you might ultimately have to sever all connections in order to live an authentic life. Although painful; it will prove profitable in the end.
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∙ 15y ago
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∙ 16y agoOnce a person breaks the trust bond it's doubtful that person can ever be trusted again. You can care for the person without loving them. When they break a trust with you (cheating, lying behind your back, etc.) then a part of your soul goes and although you should forgive them the relationship will never be the same. I just had to end a 30 year relationship with a good female friend. She has always been hyper, back-stabbing with not only myself, but others and controlling. Whatever her problem is she is old enough to get the help for it she needs. I have had many talks with her, but she did it again so I went to her home, confronted her and ended the relationship. I feel after 30 years if she doesn't get the message then she never will. It saddens me and I do care about her, but love? I don't feel that same bond with her anymore and I would never tell her some of my private thoughts because of the lack of trust so it's like walking on broken glass and who needs this extra stress. A psychologist once told me this 'When someone makes you unhappy more times in your relationship than happy it time to move on.'
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Is Love Stronger or Hate?
I think Hate..When someone break your trust whom you used to love, then suddenly you start hating him/her..Once you hate someone, you can't be love him/her again..and some nature of him/her may help to hate him/her more!
How do you trust your boyfriend after he lied so much?
There is no "way" to trust someone. Once trust is broken, nothing but time& security will fix it.
What should you do when you broke your husbands trust and you love him and want to be with him again?
Once someone has broken a trust with someone they love then it's difficult for that person to trust that individual again. Communication is the best solution to see if your husband will continue on with the relationship or not. It will take a long time for him to ever trust you again, but, if you love each other it's worth it. People are only human and sometimes they make mistakes and something was missing in your marriage either by you or your husband or possibly both and cheating never resolves any marriage problems. Tell him you realize what a terrible mistake you've made and you have learned from that mistake and want to gain his trust back again. The decision is up to him. If he decides to take you back then it would be wise to seek marriage counseling so both of you can learn the tools for a successful marriage.
What does quos amor versus tenuit tenebit mean?
This Latin phrase translates to "whom love has held, will continue to hold." It suggests that once love has taken hold of someone, it is likely to persist.
Is that the only pics you have Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction It should be given respect and trust and it should receive that love backThe best proof of love is trust?
yes the best proof of love is trust. but if it is broken once, it never comes back even if that person tries to.
What can touch someone once and last them a lifetime?
Love
Why is important to tell the truth to your friends?
If you lie to them once and get caught, they will never know when you are telling the truth. That is true with anyone you talk to. Get caught once and you will always be suspect, no one will ever totally trust you. Trust is a crucial point in any relationship, and it is the one thing that most people look for in friends.
How can you trust her how many you love her?
A relationships is trust! I think of trust as if it were a mirror once Its broken u can try to put the pieces back together but the cracks will always be there but if love is present then u will find a way to see past the cracks
How do you love agian after a affair?
You Don't. Sorry but it's time to move on. If the person cheated once they will cheat again the moment they regain your trust. Find someone who is serious about you and only you. You will never trust the person again and always wonder what they are doing behind your back. That is torture. Move on.
How do we know we can trust you I mean you did say you can't trust people but how do we trust you?
when someone says they don't trust people its because they did once but were hurt or they think they're going to get hurt. if you want someone to trust you you have to trust them. ther's always a chance you'll get hurt but hopefully you will gain wisdom for next time
Why should you trust someone?
Once you have established you can believe what someone says and totaly rely on their words and actions, you feel like you can trust them. If they deceive you with their words and/or actions, then you don't feel you can trust them any longer.
What does Gary sinise look for in women?
he looks for a woman who can be willing to trust him and he will be able to trust you and someone who needs to know how to hang out like a boy once in awhile... ^_^
