How do you deal with your husband after he cheated with your daughter-in-law?

Answer 1

You need to deal with your husband, first. Many believe in forgiveness, regardless of what has happened. If he has committed adultery, you have the right to divorce him. If you have chosen to forgive him, like if you have children together, you could ban your sister-in-law from your house, and you also demand that your husband never associate with her in private. But remember, your husband was responsible for his actions. I'd also make him get an STD & AIDS test as well. This may be the first one that he got caught with, but not necessarily the first one he cheated with.

Answer 2

• Don't just blame your husband, but the real blow is your sister allowed this to happen. She could have formed the word 'no!' They are both wrong and have hurt you and they have both lost that precious bond of trust you had with each of them. Humans are not perfect and make mistakes, but if one or the both of them feel no remorse it is time for you to get them out of your life. If your husband does show some remorse then you might think of getting a separation (not a divorce) and let him know how it feels to deal with things on his own and perhaps this will give him more time to think of how he has hurt you and how much he really does miss you. This is also going to cause a lot of hurt for the whole family and your husband and sister will be the losers. You deserve better so calm down; think about what your next step will be and do it. If you stay under these conditions then you are an enabler to both your husband and sister and you will lose your own self respect. If your husband wants to come back do not take him back unless he is willing to go to a marriage counselor with you and participate.

Answer 3

You need to make sure your son knows, and if you feel like you can't stand near your husband, divorce him.