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What do dreams about cheating on your partner mean?

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To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavours. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment. To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.

Dreaming that you are having sex with someone other than your partner may mean several things. Again, since everything in dreams is symbolic, including sex, the sex act itself must be interpreted using the lens of symbolism. Sex in dreams often means unity - becoming one with something. In a dream, this unity may be expressed by sexual union with someone who is symbolic of something important to you. For example, if you dreamed you were cheating with someone famous, it could mean that you desire more recognition or it could mean that you are giving yourself the recognition and value you deserve. Look at who you are having sex with and what they represent to you - this is a huge step in discovering what the dream itself means.

Dreams of cheating may also be dreams of wish-fulfillment. Perhaps you have become infatuated with a person outside of the relationship. Dreams of sleeping with that person are ways that one can have the experience without the devastating consequences! If you continue having dreams of this sort, look at your relationship and see if your sex life is lacking. Talk with your partner and see if there are ways in which you can improve your sex life.

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Jealousy

How does dyslexia affect relationships with other adults and partners?

No my sister is dyslexia and she loves her relationship

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What are some signs to look for if you think your spouse is cheating on you?

Signs from the car:
  • They let you do the talking most of the time.
  • They are using more gas.
  • The mileage in their car is too high. Check the mileage for them to and from work. Is there a lot of unexplained mileage?
  • They want you to wait while they clean out their car before you get in it.
  • There are two empty cups or containers for food for more than one person in their car.
  • The music stations in their car have changed.

Signs of Money:

  • Money is unaccounted for (this could also be drugs).
  • You find receipts for items you've never seen.
  • There are unexplained charges on credit card bills.

Here is some more input and advice from people who have been cheated on:

  • If you know that they cheated on people they were with before you, the chances are much higher that they will cheat on you.
  • If you're losing sleep over it and become obsessive and angry, don't just shun it away as paranoia. It might be right.
  • Unfortunately, the "signs" aren't that obvious nor are they that reliable. If he/she is doing it "right", you won't be able to tell unless you catch him/her in the act. In general, if you're the type of person that tries to keep life interesting for your spouse, you'll minimize the potential, but you can't eliminate the possibility no matter what you do. Some people tend to cheat no matter what their home life is like. Were they cheating on someone else when they met you? If so, it's probably an established behavior pattern. If your spouse is the type of person who can be trusted in other areas of life you might have a good reason to trust him in marriage. After all, marriage is about trust and commitment.
  • Note that if your spouse is not cheating and you are constantly being suspicious and questioning everything, you might just drive him/her into being unfaithful.
  • If you believe they're different now, then take the time and think of a plan to investigate them on your own.
  • If you have a gut instinct that they are cheating, 9 out of 10 times you are right. That feeling is there for a reason and if I were you I would check it out. Be careful though, you don't want it to be your own insecurity and be wrong. That will screw things up because then he will know that you don't trust him.
  • The heart knows. Don't let your mind talk you out of it. There are a lot of signs of cheating.
  • Be patient. Don't let them know you suspect them. Plan what to do if they really are cheating on you or lying to you. Be prepared to leave them. No matter how ugly, fat, worthless, or horrible lover you think you are in your mind you will always feel that way if you stay there and don't listen to your gut instincts and the hard evidence. Self esteem is how well you trust yourself. If you know something is going on, and deny it is happening you aren't trusting yourself and your self esteem same will be low. Remember somebody will love you no matter what you look like. There is always someone out there who thinks you are a 10.
  • A spouse often cheats with someone close to both of you, e.g., a neighbor, friend, or even a family member of yours. Are they especially close to someone of the opposite sex?
  • Days without showering at home, but your partner seems to have showered.
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Taurus

Does Taurus cheat?

There's no surefire answer; but lets go by facts here:

1.Taurus is very sweet and very genuine. Capable of the deepest of loves, Taurus is generally one of the most faithful zodiac signs.

2.Taurus hates hurting those he/she loves. This being said, Taurus aren't ones to stray away from the heart of a relationship.

3.Taurus has a lot of love, typically for more than one person. A Taurus' heart may belong to more than one person, but they will most likely stay physically faithful.

^Some people think I erased the answer. I didn't. Someone else erased it and I just gave another answer...

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Why do women get curious about other men while in a committed relationship?

women naturally want to improve their men(of which most men dont want) so they want to know what other men have that others that their man doesn't have

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Not all women do that. One should only be in a committed relationship if one really loves the other person. When you really love someone, at least in my opinion, you do not get curious about other men, under any circumstances, even if separated for long periods of time.

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Maori Language and Culture

What does iwi mean to Maori?

Extended kinship group, tribe, nation, people, race - often refers to a large group of people descended from a common ancestor.

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How can you tell if your wife lies about where she's been and what she's doing?

Vague question...leads to vague answers. Aside from the physiological changes associated with lies - it is tough. If you're married, you're more than likely going to pick up on some tell-tale signs that are out of place - but if you're really concerned: you can hire a private detective to track her. If you're expecting an affair to surface, you can do things like: Check milage on her car in the morning and then ask what all she did... add up the numbers. Check credit card and bank card statements... Look through her purse, wallet, and car for things that are out of place - reciepts for two from resturants, gas from out-of-the-way places etc. Just be prepared for the backlash - if you are wrong, you'll be branded as a paranoid, posessive, jealous person for the rest of your marriage without some excellent reasons for going through her stuff. <br /><br /> If you are not a very insecure person to begin with, your gut could be telling you something.<br /><br /> If you're asking this question, I must ask if you yourself are lieing about where you go and what you do. If you do it, you start thinking that they do it. And that is probably not the case. Another way to tell if your wife is lieing about where she is going and what she is doing is to look for other lies about other things.<br /><br />Generally if a woman will lie about one thing then she will lie about another. If you have been married for very long,then you probally have children. If so; then ask your child questions about what they did for the day and where they were? You might be suprised what you can learn from them. Word your questions carefully and you could be very suprised what you might learn from someone so young and innocent.Also;Remember they have no reason to lie. <br /><br />

NOTE: All of these methods involve a GREAT deal of distrust and should only be done as a last resort.

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What do you do if your wife cheats on you?

If you both want to save the marriage, your wife needs to admit to the affair and end it as of this moment. She needs to have no contact with the man she was having the affair with, even if this means quitting a job.

She needs to explain why she had the affair--what were the issues she had in your marriage that made her decide to be with someone else? She should also agree to marital counseling with you, or at the least some counseling with a priest or a pastor.

If she has no interest in giving up the affair or going to counseling, there isn't a lot you can do to save the marriage.

Answerits almost impossible to please anybody now days and cheaters can go long periods straight but will cheat again .. send her packin and get a hiv test unless your into self punishment then give her another chance AnswerFirst thing you need to do is recognize that there are serious problems in the marriage, and that your "wife" is not the honest, caring, considerate person that she claimed to be. Second thing you must do is immediately talk to a lawyer and find out what your options are, as they vary by state. Third thing you do is objectively evaluate your situation. Are there kids involved ? If you have no kids, then divorce her immediately. Remember women & men are different. Men cheat because of the physical. Women cheat because of the emotional attachment, thus when a woman cheats it is almost always over. If you elect to stay in the marriage it is CRITICAL that you evaluate your financial contributions from this point forward. If you are the primary financial provider, you must, you absolutely must protect your financial interests by declaring a legal separation. Being separated doesn't necessarily mean you are getting a divorce, but what it does mean is that you will not be liable for future financial obligations.Set up separate bank accounts, and make sure she is contributing financially to the household. Have an attorney draw up a QRDO, and immediately divide the 401k. Essentially treat the marriage as a financial partnership, because essentially this is the only way you can possibly save yourself. Next both of you go to counseling and see what happends. Lastly if you even remotely suspect her of continuing the affair, spy on her. Load software on the computer to get her keystrokes. Check the cell phone usage. Chances are if you think she is cheating, then she probably is. Good luck. Keep the faith. AnswerFirst, catch the wife in the act, that way, she doesnt get half of the marital assets nor custody of the kids.

Here no matter the reason you go to court for divorce it's a no fault. Though in this state it's on the record that a woman actually served jail time for having sex with another man. Go figure. Unless the couple has a agreement before hand, everything gets split. 50 50. Sorry buddy she gets the billard table you get the shafts I mean sticks.

AnswerOnce a cheater, always a cheater. My Mormon wife cheated on me twice! And she did the same thing to her ex-hubby. AnswerIf you suspect your wife/spouse/partner/lover is cheating on you, even if it is the most difficult thing for you to do, give her the benefit of the doubt. It's not always right or correct, even as being our first instinct, to point a finger and accuse a woman of cheating. Everyone knows that it is scientifically proven that men are 13x more likely to cheat than women, however, there are the few and far-between women that actually DO cheat. Think of it on a positive note, though: if she cheated on you, it wasn't meant to be, and you can go on with your life after a time of which you feel comfortable, and move on to bigger and much better things in your life. AnswerUnderstand that you now have the answer to whether you wife is the cheating type. Two options:

1) Stay with her; which is showing her that there is no penalty for doing it. Then wait for the next time, which will certainly be in your future.

2) Be hurt,betrayed,and sad that she ruined the relationship built on trust. Talk out you feelings with her to get things out for both of you. Then tell her you understand her explanation, you still care about her, and accept what she did. Then tell her you hope she understands now, just like she said she did when you got married, that you can not be with someone that you cannot trust. If she "learned her lesson" or "mistake", remind her that now she knows the consequences, when she finds someone else. Then offer to help her pack.

AnswerAs a Muslim, this is punishable by death! You see people, God gave us the Ten Commandments so we can live righteoulsy. If we all abide by these, there's no need for counseling, no expensive lawyers to pay, and above all no plague on this world. But man wants to create his own set of rules in life. Not a good idea..because no one can ever beat the Laws of God. It is perfect in every sense. If a wife cheats, she'll burn in hell for all eternity. This is a fact and you must always remember this. How could you enter Paradise if you had cheated on your husband!!! This is insane! Shame on those cheating wives. You had made a lifetime commitment to your husband, and you should never cheat on him.

If ever this happens to you, may God forbid... tell her this straight into her eyes; " May God have mercy on you on the Day of Judgement".

All shall feel the wrath that awaits those who cheat! May God the Almighty have mercy on your souls.

AnswerSins of the flesh. The flesh is weak. SEX is a basic instict in all. Though I personally beleave in a couple mantaining the basics of a relationship won't be shocked when a affair is discussed first. "open" relationships or swingers fear no pain from having sex with others. Watching is fun & builds a closness like nothing else can.

In PA. adultery is punishable up to 3 years in prison if proven in court (1997 women servered time-3 months). Death now hmmmm. I am thinking to myself that her life is less than my own. A woman is to be treasured...shared if need be. Depends on the person/people. If you allow yourself such rage & selfishness to want death because your ego your frail feelings are hurt than you can have that 'god'. My GOD forgives & allows mistakes or growth. But in the end if you can't talk to your mate about fantasy or outside relationship sex as a release.. I.E. Roll play her another woman as she's blindfolded. Call her the name aloud. If you can't be honest & state needs... I need to explore sexual more with you. He should help....not push her away. Anyway I see it like this: 56% of American are divorced. Over 70% cheat on their spouse. LIEING about it the entire time. Caught on video & still deny it too. This country will never grow as a strong nation if the families aren't able to stregthen the next generation by using example as a teaching tool. Watch parents rationly solve issues like infidelity or even minor ones like compromising on financial investing. One year use her plan. Next use his. See which is working for the growth of/to wealth. I would not hide the hurt & distane from partner but I wouldn't allow it to KILL a part of myself. Couples that marry are YOKED!

AnswerYou need to talk to her about it. Tell her it has to stop and then suggest going through counseling, together and separate. If she doesn't want to end the affair, you will probably have to leave her, or just deal with the affair. It will be healthier for everyone if you and she separate if she isn't willing to stop though. This is a very tough situation and you need to do what you think is best for you. AnswerTell her you know, and tell him you know, make sure he understands you wont put up with it.

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Give her an ultimatum: Either immediately fire her secretary, end the affair, and go to marriage counseling with you, or you'll take the kids and leave. If she refuses to stop, pack up and leave. Tell her you won't come back until she stops and agrees to go to counseling. You don't deserve to have to put up with that sort of thing.

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Should you stay in a marriage with a jealous husband even though you've never cheated because you have young children?

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It sounds like you are only currently staying with your husband now because of your kids.

If the situation is that unpleasant or if there is any verbal or physical abuse involved, get out of the marriage. Your children could be more damaged by witnessing the anger between you and your husband, rather than living with you in a one parent household. Children are far more aware of what is going on between than parents than the parents would like to believe.

I would sugggest privately contacting an attorney about filing for a divorce. Try to be as amiable with your ex husband as much as can, as long as he has been a good father to your children. Make it clear to your kids that both you and your ex love them, but you and their father have differences that require that you not live together anymore.

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I don't know how long you have been married, but if not for too many years or not long, these are just some signs of the control freak he is. It won't get better and in time you will have gotten dumpy and miserable. He'll take and take and take until you have lost who you are from within.

My husband is a really jealous guy..i have a baby with him and ive never cheated..i think that men that are like this are just insecure..he just wants you to be his and only his..

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What is dogging you out mean?

I take dogging someone out as mistreating them or using them or making a fool of them. When someone is dogged out they are mistreated to the point where they're at their lowest, and most of the time, they don't even realize it because they are so used to it. Someone can be dogged out sexually, mentally, or emotionally.

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Chlamydia

If you have chlamydia does that mean your partner cheated?

Certainly the situation merits a frank discussion with the partner. If you've had genital-genital contact with someone else during that time, it's possible you brought the infection into the relationship without having sex with someone else. It's possible your test was a false chlamydia test result. A more obvious and common explanation is that your partner brought the infection into the relationship. Sorry for your trouble, whatever the cause may have been.

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Dreams and Dream Interpretation

What does it mean if your husband dreams you were murdered?

Could mean nothing or so much,if you belive in supernatural things it could be a preminition of something to happen but the best answer is that is you love someone your always worried about there safety and sometime dreams bring out your worst fears also he could of watched a movie earlier that night were someone gets killed and the dream was replaying that and used people hes familer with to replace

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Dreams and Dream Interpretation

Had a dream that your ex-girlfriend cheated on you?

To be frank, it doesn't matter-she's already your ex-girlfriend. An ex is an ex for a reason, so leave it alone. A dream is neither a valid argument or proof she cheated & regardless of whether or not she did, wondering about or accusing her doesn't matter since you're no longer with her, anyway. Don't take the dream to heart or let it stress you out!

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What is the definition of teenage relationships?

During the teenage years, the youth does not have a firm understanding of the role of dating. To teenagers, dating only consists of someone the feel attached to, spend time with, and/or a personified experiement. The teens, may have curiosity in the emotions and tasks involved in a "relationship". The lack of understanding of what a true relationship consists of is ehy the teenagers these days are so distorted. Dating's purpose is to first step into marriage...that is its sole purpose. Teenager do not, and should not be thinking about marriage. This is why the teens develop a pointless definition of a relationship, becasue too few times do these meaningless relationship lead to anything other than sexual curiosity.

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Why do secretaries fall for their married bosses?

Sometimes , it's just a kind of " idol " worship. Sometimre it's more calculated , and she may be looking for monetary advantages, or a way to manipulate her boss. There is always a possibility SHE is being sexually harassed , and doesn't or can't stand up for herself.

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Algebra

What are the solutions to the negative influences of the media?

  • The only solution to stopping negative influences of the media is to either be wise enough to believe half of what you hear or ignore the media altogether. It is true that the media dwells mainly on the bad news (bad news travels fast) and little about all the good things people do in this world. It is because a high percentage of the public demand details and are interested in the blood and guts of a story with all the details in tack. Years ago newspapers were only interested in the truth, but throughout the years they seek sensationalism to stay on top and now it hits the TV and Internet. Some important issues regarding gossip in politics; worldly events, etc., are often muzzled by the powerful and the newspapers and other forms of media can only print what is demanded by one or more people in power. The integrity of the media has lowered itself to serve those with power to stop the truth in some cases and add to the frenzy of propaganda in many areas of world events.
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Is that cheating if a girl kiss you that has a boyfriend?

It is cheating; if you are involved in a relationship and you show *unnecessary affection, such as flirting, kissing, or sensual or suggestive touching, or becoming involved sexually with another person other than your partner or spouse is considered cheating, no matter what form it comes in. However, the 'rules' of cheating vary from person to person; for example, some people believe it isn't cheating if you are flirting over the internet, while others believe that groping or touching those other than their partner is fine.

*By this, I mean that the affections are not casual or friendly; hugs and friendly pecks (generally kisses on the cheeks) are fine, while any other gesture that suggests a sexual/emotional bond towards a person other than a spouse or partner.

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Spanish to English

What is a woman getting married called?

BRIDE

In Spanish, she is called la novia. La novia can also mean the girlfriend, and the fiancée.After the wedding, she is la esposa - the wife.

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Friendship

What do you do when your best friend leaves to another state?

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First of all, its not a big deal that someone you care will be moving. Best friend will always be best friend no matter what. Do you believe that distance is what makes a heart fonder? This best friend of yours is not abandoning you, he or she is only transferring to another state. You can look at this way, you will have a place to go to, just like a vacation. So don't let this makes you sad because your best friend is moving to another state.

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How do you find out single guy likes married woman?

Ask him, or if you're a bit shy try bring up the subject. Good luck :)

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Pregnancy
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Teen Dating

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant what do i do?

It really depends on how you feel about him. I personally would break up with him after finding out something like that because that'd make me guess he's the irresponsible type to bail. If he's a good guy though and is taking care of the girl he got pregnant then it shows he's at least the type to handle his problems and not run away from them. If he got her pregnant WHILE you were dating then dump him! You can do so much better I'm sure then being with a cheater! It really depends on your situation. I'm a teenager too and I know if my boyfriend EVER cheated on me I'd leave him in a heartbeat. To me, cheating is unacceptable and people should be completely honest in a relationship if there is to be trust. If there's no trust then there's no true relationship.

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Manners and Etiquette

What does it mean when a man calls you sweetie?

It either means that he is trying to holla at you or he is trying to be sweet and impress you....:)

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It is an old fashioned way of paying a compliment to you. It does not mean that he is trying to have an affair with you, but that you are an attractively nice person and he wishes to let you know in the kindest way that he has noticed this. Accept the compliment gracefully but do not encourage him. The term is similar to you saying "Hello handsome".

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Breakups

What are the signs that your boyfriend is cheating on you?

Some clear signs that your boyfriend is cheating, is when he starts changing; like coming home late, or not telling the truth about minor stuff. When he is getting messages on his phone, or if he deletes incoming and outgoing calls. If you try to reach him and he doesn't answer, or if he goes out but doesn't want you there, or if he is dishonest about where he was and who he was hanging out with. If he loves you, there is no reason not to be truthful.

If you have been together for awhile then just like the first person answered. People are creatures of habit, when they get up, go to bed, what the wear, when they go out, where they go out, when and how often they contact you. If you see changes in this behavior then something is usually up. It doesn't always mean their cheating but it can mean they are losing interest in you. Either way it leads to a split.

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Why is it that my husband always accuses me of cheating he always threatens me he is going to leave me which happens very often?

  • I go through this allot myself. Most recently he accused me of cheating because a pack of lighters on too of our dresser was moved from the position it was in when he left for work. I stay home all day with our four year old son, and I believe that does not think that is a real job and that I sit around all day doing nothing. I don't know why he would think that I would have an affair with our son around, but he thinks something is going on the he does not know about. So maybe he accuses you of cheating because you are home while he is working. (stay at home mom or working opposite hours) Also, has he been cheated on in the past? My husband's ex cheated on him every time they would fight, and I think that is a large part of why he always thinks that I am cheating on him, although it really has nothing to do with me.
  • There are a few reason why a husband accuses his wife of cheating: his mother or father cheated on the other; one of his girlfriends (perhaps more than one) may have cheated on him; he is of a very jealous natures; he is cheating himself or he feels you are his property and wants it to remain that way by accusing you of cheating so if you are not and may be thinking of it because he is driving you away from him, he is then correct. Marriage is based on trust and the two of you should sit down and use communication skills. If this does not work then tell him he either goes with you for marriage counseling or you will file for divorce because this is no way to live. If you have children this is not a good environment for them to grow up in.
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How do you end an affair and reconnect at home?

I think the first thing that has to be done is for the cheater to let go of his partner that he has cheated with. I MEAN it; don't accept any emails, phone calls, ect. It will be difficult since you have become so used to this addition. Secondly, being the wife who got cheated on, if she doesn't know DO NOT TELL HER! It will only bring disaster and turmoil. Get yourself past the affair and vow to NEVER have any type of contact whatsoever in the future. Now, if your partner is like me, suspected something all along you may have to disclose the affair and let her know that you have truly ended it. Expect, tears, anger, and frustration. Do not give too many sordid details, we really don't want to know.

It will only prolong the healing process. I mean it, if it is over, then let it be over.......

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