How do you find out if he still loves you the same after hurting him?

Answer 1

There are signs:

1 - Still responds to your text messages. (He might be rude at times. But, it's just because he's returning favors)

2 - Picks your calls and doesn't hang up even after saying that he will. Something like, "I'll hang up if you don't have something important to say". And doesn't. Moreover, doesn't interrupt when you talk!

3 - Takes hangout invitations and shows up. (He might be rude still, but, he is not losing any contacts with you. For, he wouldn't dare to do so)

Lastly, there are loads of other signs.

Isn't shouting at you (is polite still), isn't offending you, still smiling (or, laughing) at your jokes, holding hands - sharing hugs and tiny pecks (with your initiation, of course), still sharing stuffs with you, still wanting to know how you are and what you're doing, still asking people about you (stuffs like how you are and what're you doing these days), still defending you behind your back, etc.

Piece of advice: You can test it too. Just send someone over to him to spit mean stuffs about you. Note his reaction in minute details (like, how he was reacting verbally and physically). Reach to a conclusion then.

P.S: By "He might be rude at times", I mean, he might show tantrums. He might not look at you while you're talking. Might not open up easily and all.

Hope it helps! :)