How do you find the right woman?

Answer 1

I am no expert for sure, and your question is pretty broad ( no pun intended) but I assume you mean the right woman for YOU. To me, a woman, that means being the right guy, for ME. Now I am not saying that there is only one person for all of us, and if we don't find that special someone we are doomed; I am speaking generally. Being the right guy means to me, means being a lifelong learner,someone who is on a spiritual journey ( that does not mean religion, emphatically not) of personal growth, and being someone who would love to share their healthy selves with someone else, but also enjoys their own company. In other words, being comfortable in their own skin. I am not talking about perfection, far from it, or someone with no 'past' or bad habits, in fact I would find it pretty disconcerting to share my life with someone who has no faults or nothing in their past they would rather not have done. But it is important for people to leave their past there, in the past, and not be dragging it around in a footlocker, bringing a bunch of garbage to a relationship. A sense of humour is very important to any relationship, I think and a big part of being the right guy..These attributes and a few others I think would make it pretty easy for you to find the right woman or for her to find you. Not needing to look for the right woman is one of the keys to actually finding her in my opinion. Helped? I am no expert for sure, and your question is pretty broad ( no pun intended) but I assume you mean the right woman for YOU. To me, a woman, that means being the right guy, for ME. Now I am not saying that there is only one person for all of us, and if we don't find that special someone we are doomed; I am speaking generally. Being the right guy means to me, means being a lifelong learner,someone who is on a spiritual journey ( that does not mean religion, emphatically not) of personal growth, and being someone who would love to share their healthy selves with someone else, but also enjoys their own company. In other words, being comfortable in their own skin. I am not talking about perfection, far from it, or someone with no 'past' or bad habits, in fact I would find it pretty disconcerting to share my life with someone who has no faults or nothing in their past they would rather not have done. But it is important for people to leave their past there, in the past, and not be dragging it around in a footlocker, bringing a bunch of garbage to a relationship. A sense of humour is very important to any relationship, I think and a big part of being the right guy..These attributes and a few others I think would make it pretty easy for you to find the right woman or for her to find you. Not needing to look for the right woman is one of the keys to actually finding her in my opinion. Helped?