Lots and lots of therapy, both individual and couples' therapy. The better way to fix an abusive relationship is to get out and cut your losses now. More than likely, it will not get better. You deserve more.
Why are you trying to fix it if he doesn't want it to be fixed? It takes 2 to make it work and you being the only one working on it isn't going to make it better.He obviously wants out so let him leave.Go find someone that WANTS to be there, someone you don't have to force to stay in the relationship.
Several different reasons. One could be because the abuser has such a hold on the abused that they stay because they think that the abuser is the only person that will want them. There is also fear that if the abused left the abuser would hunt them down and make them pay for leaving in the first place. If you asked 10 different abused people why they stay (stayed) in they're abusive relationships I can almost promise you'll get 10 different answers. In some cases the abused person believes that she/he can fix the abuser, or for complex reasons might even feel guilt about leaving the abuser.
Sometimes you are able to. It all depends on the relationship. I know you and your partner are deeply in love and you probably can not see yourself with out him or her. You need to sit down with your partner and decide if you both want to put in the effort, and counseling to fix your relationship. If it does not work, then no you can not fix an abusive relationship because it just is not meant to be. When you think about it, you should not try to isolate, control, or limit the one you love because that is not true love. If you have the thoughts of leaving your partner, then you should because if you were truly happy then you would not be having these thoughts. Moving on is a very hard thing, but with great friends to keep your mind off of him/her, it is possible. I experience this myself.
because your boyfriend is not michael. he is splendid.
You can't fix it. It could be mended possibly. Depends on the people involved. You should write a specific question if you want a specific and thoughtful answer.
Talk to the other person. Ask them what they feel is wrong with the relationship. Confront them on how you truly feel about it. Then tell them you want to talk to them, and fix things.
well if you love each other then i think you should help each other through the relationship Fix His Problem? What problem? Haven't you asked?
Communication.
It means to fix or improve a relationship.
If the abuse has been going on for a fairly long period of time then your best bet is to break up with him, even though you love him, ending it could make it stronger and help you boyfriend realize what he is doing and make/help him change. Well it is understandable to be in love with him because you been with him for 4 years. On the other hand, there can be ways to fix this. Ask yourself What makes you guys fight. Why is he abusive? Do you lead him to hitting you or getting loud. If that happens to often then you need to not yell at him, and he shouldn't be yelling either. Do you talk it out with him. He should have more respect and have been taught to never hit a woman. Being in an abusive relationship isn't healthy, so maybe it would best for both of you to separate for your safety. It will be hard having to leave him, but there are many more fish out there and better that will treat you the way you want to be treated. We as women never want to be hit by the man we love. We want to be treated with love.I hope things work out for you.
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