You and your husband have a commitment together. If he is still committed to you and your marriage despite your inattention, leave the boyfriend and concentrate on the husband and the balance of your lives. Perhaps get counseling so you can get closer in heart and mind.
Go out with your girls and forget about him.
It depends if that person is already legal in the US and if they already have their green card
If Five years ago he was not your, he will not be yours in next 5 years also even he comes back to you. Forget him and go for the best.
Get a boyfriend
You could try to <a href="http://www.healthandhappiness.info">win back your ex boyfriend</a>. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't but it's worth a go.
If you believe in soul mates then he should be your husband. Soul-mates are husband material if you see your boyfriend as potential husband material then he could very well be your husband. If your dating your soul-mate you better not let him go.
No you can't bring this boyfriend of yours over cuz that would be cheating on your husband. Doesn't your husband love or do you not love him? If you love your husband let this so called boyfriend go! But if you don't love your husband get a Divorce, if you have children be mindful of their Opinion.
you don't want to it is not a good idea trust me just forget you even had an old bf go forward not backward
just put all that behind you and if it has stopped then just go on with your lives and forget about it but watch him when he goes out of the house
If you have tried to talk your friend out of going back to her abusive boyfriend then you have done all you can as a trusted and loyal friend and this means your friend is a slow learner. Just let her learn the hard way and be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on the second time around and hopefully she will get the message by then. Young woman (woman of any age) will often want to go back to their abusive boyfriend or husband because they have low self esteem.
Is "he" your husband, brother, boyfriend, friend, co-worker, boss, mechanic???
It feels like when I have been used that my boyfriend/ husband don't care about me.. Also when they are always leaving to go somewhere and not come back until like 5:00 in the morning...