You should have learned from the first mistake when you cheated on him. 9 chances out of 10 the guy did the right thing and forgave you and you let him down by not respecting his kindness. Basically, you deserve what you got because you have one lousy track record. When you truly love someone you don't entertain the thought of cheating on them. Cheating can happen out of loneliness (the partner not being there that much) or, an argument that could have possibly been patched up. Sometimes the lack of commitment gets in the way.
Hopefully you'll have learned from what you've done because if you pull this off again with anyone else you're going to be one lonely person or end up with someone that uses and abuses other people as well.
I'd call him up and he may meet with you, but I have to say, if this guy was smart he'd kick your booty to the curb!
Marcy
Why would you want him back??? He cheated! But i do realize some are really in love and can't just easily forget the ex. So if u want him back, make him jealous....Allow him to see you with another guy and he will realize what he's missing. Males in some ways have the same mentality as females if not more intense. Their egos have to be stroked...So when he has the slightest idea that you might have moved on, he'll come running back!
-------------
You don't. He has no respect for you and you have no respect for yourself. If you don't do something about that, you will repeat this scene over and over and over again. And then you'll be 50.
Get busy. Do something outside yourself; take some courses, do volunteer work, get involved in the community like arts, community garden, etc. Then you may actually feel good about yourself when you're 50.
Work very hard to regain his trust and BE trustworthy. But don't blame him if he still doesn't want you back because it's very tough on him.
I married my ex-wife after 2 yrs of divorce and i new of her infidelity
If your 'ex' dumped you for an 'ex' that dumped her, chances are she's gonna get dumped again.
That is a decision to be made between your boyfriend and yourself
...what?
No.
tell her that her boyfriend cheated on her. she needs to know.
Why not, he is your ex. So technically he can go out with whom he wants.
you will have to earn the trust back and it will always be harder for him because he wont know if you will do it again.
Well it depends , if your on about your boyfriend has cheated on you , dump him and neva look back at him ... but if your talking about your ex boyfriend has just cheated on you ignore him very simple posted by maddie payne x.maddie-kate.x@hotmail.co.uk for any more advice
i mean, if he's your ex-boyfriend he's your EX-boyfriend. that means...boyfriend.
I think your question lacks information. For example, does your boyfriend and his ex have kids or any other reason for talking? Also, are you saying he has cheated on you with her?
You can't! Shouldn't of cheated on him you jerk. If does come back to you he is not worth it anyway!