How do you get over your ex boyfriend when he wants you to leave him Alone?

Answer 1

Leaving an ex boy friend when he wants you to leave him alone is tricky mostly when you are still in love with him. However it can be possible but needs to take things slow and step by step. For a start one needs not to be alone as in such situations you feel the impact more and because you are alone you get to think about him all the time and this is not good for you as you will only be remembering the good things he did for you and imagining what you would be doing together at such a time, so one needs to be with friends and cheer up go out in places with fun such as clubs or girls night outs where you can get someone else also try being in happy moments don't lock your self up in the house, Call your friends and have them around you as much as you can and mostly get those funny and talkative friends. If you are able top reduce your idle time then that is a step forward now find some one to talk to about you and your ex and make sure to pour everything out even the bad things he did while you were still in an affair with him. This will help you breath and feel much more at easy. Avoid romantic movies and music listen to some reggae and rock as slow music will bring in more feelings. Ask him if you can for the reasons he left if you tow don't talk any more, moving to a different place might help as so that you minimize the moments that you will knock into each other and be as though you are total strangers. If he is a real gentle man tell him to give you time to heal as you talk and get over it, Communicate with him if he gives you the chance he might even come back to you. However if he doesn't want anything to do with you then try not bumping into him by either moving away for awhile which is the best way to give your self time to heal and get over him. Remember its only a matter of time that wounds get healed. Be strong for he is not the only guy, Possibly God wants you to breakup so he can brink you someone better.