How do you get your girlfriend horny?

Answer 1

Despite popular belief, making a girl horny isn't really that hard to do. Girls are very sensual versus guy, who are visual. Girls like to be touched and talked to. If a guy comes at you all hot and raring to go, its a turn on sometimes, but most of the time we like to be wooed.

Girls are probably the most insecure things on the planet when it comes to how our bodies look. When a guy is trying to get you in the mood, all the girl is thinking about is "I wonder how I look right now? Oh his hands are on my stomach, I wonder if he feels my fat roll? Or, oh, his hands are on my ass, does he think its too jiggly?" It seems weird and kinda silly but its the truth.

If you want to turn a girl on, start slow. Look into her eyes and tell her how beautiful she is to you, and how happy she makes you feel. Gently touch her face and push her hair out of the way ( a bit cliche, but we love it!), start with slow soft kisses and then get more intense. Once the clothes start coming off, pause for a while and look at her. Of course she will notice and ask what in the world you are doing, but simply tell her (again) how sexy she is and pick a few things about her body that you know she might be self conscious about and compliment them. Once we feel comfortable in our own skin, it's easy to get us riled up.

A few hints for some moves that turn girls on:

1) Ears: very sensitive, a whisper or a breath near our ears really turns us on

2) Touching our hips: this is a very sensitive area and if you grab our hips to pull us towards you, that's a big turn on. Also just running your hands or fingers along our hips is a turn on too

3) Multitask: ya it's great when you kiss us or touch us, but can you kiss us while pulling our hair with one hand, grabbing our boob with the other and grinding your body with ours? Like I said, girls are easily stimulated by touch, so it just makes sense: the more touching, the more stimulation.

Answer 2

It's important to have open communication and establish consent before engaging in any sexual activity. Building intimacy, showing genuine affection, and being attentive to your partner's needs and desires are key ways to create a more passionate and connected relationship. Remember, every person is different, so it's important to communicate openly with your partner to understand what arouses and excites them.

Answer 3

Make her feel sexy and wanted/needed...tell her she turns you on. Ask her if she would like to lay down with you, that you would like her to relax. Get some lotion and rub it up her legs to her inter thigh area across over her panties to the other inter thigh, kinda of in a teasingly manner. Take it somewhat slowly as to not rush into and not to slow either. Kiss her and start touching her CHEST...just be spontaneous. Mrs. dr

After you have shown her how much you are turned on by her beauty and how good you make her feel then take the time to just cuddle up or spoon with her and don't try to rush the sex just gently kiss her neck and whisper softly how much you just want to hold her and that the sex is important but it doesn't have to be the first thing you have to do, just let her know she is the most important person in the world to you and all you want is to be with her and make her happy no matter what it takes. But if you are a young man, getting a girl HOT & HORNYsn't worth all the trouble for just a _ _ _ ! Go to the bathroom. Being young and dumb can get you in a World Of Doo-Doo, and if your not protected you will end up hating each other cause your stupidity might just make a child neither of you are ready for or much less really want. So boys and girls just go slow and easy have fun but be true to yourselves and each other, enjoy.

Answer 4

Here are some (hopefully) helpful ways to get her horny:

1. strip her, whilst kissing and licking her body. I think it helps if it takes longer to strip her to make her wait.

2. let her strip you, keep trying to kiss her and hopefully she will copy what you did to her.

3. touch her favorite places. Don't go for yours, because she usually doesn't like it. My girlfriends favorite places are the nape of her neck, breast 'buttons' (the nipples), just above her vagina and her inner thighs.

4. play the grunt and groan game. Tell her to grunt or groan every time she likes what you are doing to her, the loader they grunt or groan, the better they like it. My girlfriend loves playing the game because it allows her to have a say in sex if you are always leading them.

5. run your fingers around the vagina, get her to pull the 'lips' apart and then you could suck or lick it.

After this, you can have sexual intercourse, tell her that she can lead then you can.

Answer 5

This only works if you are really close with your bf

Tell him your "hot spots" (the places you like to be touched)

Guide his hand to them (don't get mad if he doesn't get it right the first time)

Tell him what you like when you have sex ( what positions, how long, where, etc.)

if you get him really good it feels nice when he sucks 2-3 inches above the vag ( you can wrap your legs around his neck and rub his back with your feet and legs)

the idea noted above works best in bed or when the girl is sitting on the edge of something such as a table, chair, washing machine or dryer, bar, etc.

Answer 6

well, hopefully you both are old enough for sexual activities. taking your time slowly kiss her neck and lips. start touching her her breast and most girls gets horny when you suck on her breast while touching her. make sure to use protectionP>

-to add to that, you can bite her ear and slowly move down to the back of her neck and bite her softly and lick the same spot you had just bitten, then blow on it. it will send tingles up her spine and most people like that. while doing that you can also play with her breasts, thighs, anything that is sensitive. but don't actually touch her down there yet. maybe if she has underwear or pants. lightly run you and there to make her want more.

Answer 7

I was once a very good girl; what turned me on was when the guy would be there for me but would never ilicit sexual things to a point that I would be sexually frustrated and needed the physical affection. I liked to be the starter of anything sexual and would be easily put off if the guy was insistive or suggestive all the time. With a good girl, the time taken with her to be patient is WELL worth it... I came out a freak so I can attest to that.

Good luck!

Answer 8

look at the girl in the eye and dont lie and make a romantic dinner with candles at your house....then get flirty....then it should be easy......most of the time

Answer 9

simply feel her and kiss her on the neck then slowly move down to the chest area then you got it..seriousley u mighta seen it in movies.

Answer 10

Every girl is different. Do the romantic things she likes and treat her good. Eventually she will be horny. Kissing usually works.