First and foremost you need to analyze the situation like what made him/her leave at the first place because when you are able to gather all this information, you will also begin to see the situation from a different angle. When done, you then proceed by letting him/her know how important he/she is to you especially when the kids are involved. He/she will then understand where you coming from when you base your talks more on the kids rather than relationship because it is out of relationship that you guys got the kids so the main focus is the kids. And also allow sometime for the partner/opponent to think about what you have said then follow up to confirm his/her final thoughts. Wish you all the best and take it really cool especially if it is a woman because she will need ample of time to think.
It could mean your future is with your ex-boyfriend and his kids. You may get back together with him. Or it might also mean, you are ready to have children.
Only your ex can answer this.
I am a girl and i would NEVER get back with my ex.
Justin Bieber is not back together with his ex. They are close friends, but he is still single.
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You don't, move on.
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If you don't want to get back together with your ex, then yes. You are over them.
Not unnatural if they have kids together - he wants to be involved with their upbringing.If they don't have kids together, then that is a bit weird.
It really depends on you do you want to get back together with him?
Only if your ex is still interested in you, if he/she is, try your best in getting them back.
This is easy. There is no way I would, nor you should stay with someone who cheats all the time or anytime. Move on and be happy with who you met and love. Once a cheater always one.