How do you get your friend to stop dating your crush?

Answer 1

First of all you probably know that if they are happy you shouldn't break them up.

However, I will give some advice.

Keep notes( in your head!) of what your crush likes that your friend does or has. Try to get that, but don't get a copy or you will look like a pathetic copycat.

Try to see your crush whenever you can WITHOUT looking or acting like a stalker.

Speak to your crush when their "date" is not around, but don't be obvious you like him or talk to him alot.

Make yourself unavailable: get a date for yourself. trying to make your crush jealous probably won't work, but if you still show interest in your crush "as a friend" your crush might fall for you.

Tell your crush of something that your friend did that was not the best of choices, but DON'T lie or make it obvious that you are trying to get them apart.

Maybe you can talk to your friend about "whether or not her date is the right choice for her," and suggest another person while not sounding like you want your friend's current date.

Above all don't be obvious, keep your friend, and if you see that they are really perfect for each other, let them be, even if your heart breaks because you WILL get a new crush, someday at sometime.

Hope this helped

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